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Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
Category: Relationships and Society Asked by: gasoline-ga List Price: $7.00 |
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08 Nov 2002 01:18 PST
Expires: 08 Dec 2002 01:18 PST Question ID: 102545 |
I am a relatively new eyeglasses wearer (1.5 years) and have developed an amateur hypothesis that the wearing of eyeglasses *slightly* inhibits the development of personal connections in isolated encounters. Not in the formation of long-term business or personal relationships, but in the outcome of momentary, ephemeral contact. Since I have started wearing glasses I have noticed that it is more difficult for me to make and hold eye contact with people I meet in passing - store clerks, the coffee guy, bank tellers, etc. The result is that I have less satisfying exchanges in these encounters. The possibility of it having to do with two thin pieces of glass barely obscuring my eyes fascinates me. I am looking for documented case studies that support this idea. The results of a well-executed research study with validated control and test groups would be nice. An answer that merely echoes my basic "guess" with anecdotal evidence would not be satisfactory. |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: unstable-ga on 08 Nov 2002 01:54 PST |
gasoline i wear glasses but i dont seem to have the same problem you have 8-) maybe its the type of glasses you are wearing? |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: politicalguru-ga on 08 Nov 2002 02:08 PST |
Dear Gasoline, I didn't find any researches that may help you (a note to other researchers: Because of time, I didn't look to hard, so you may want to keep trying...) - but I did find the following quote: "Often the same learner will look towards a persons eyes only when that person (not the learner!) is wearing spectacles. It is therefore worth experimenting to see if a person may be identified in this way. The reflectiveness of their glasses may be varied by moving towards and away from a light shining from behind the learner's head. This technique may also be used in reverse. If the learner does not seem to be attending to faces, but does seem to be attending to the reflective surface of spectacles, then this can be paired with something that the learner prefers. Suppose a young child likes being tickled. As soon as the child looks at the glasses, tickle him. Then remove your glasses. After a time, tickle him while he is looking in that direction, even though no glasses may be worn at that time." (Scottish Sensory Centre, Vision for Doing, Chapter 7 ASSESSING VISION FOR DOING Section 16 Visual Responses to People <http://www.ssc.mhie.ac.uk/vfdh/vfdch7s16.html>). In other words, it could be that some people lose their attention to your eyes, especially if your glasses reflect too much on them. |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: robertskelton-ga on 08 Nov 2002 03:12 PST |
I would expect that any anecdotal evidence found online would be of the paranoid nature. As someone who began wearing specs in his teenage years, I believe that all my concerns were about negative thoughts towards specs wearers in general, rather than any logical basis for not connecting. These days specs can be made to be virtually invisible, as is evidenced by Australia's popular leader John Howard: http://news.bbc.co.uk/olmedia/1670000/images/_1671745_howard150ap.jpg Or it could be that certain people lose self-confidence when wearing glasses (due to pre-conceptions) and that is the underlying problem. My guess is that it would be a very difficult topic to study. How do you find subjects who do not care one iota whether they wear specs or not? |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: eastwood-ga on 08 Nov 2002 03:27 PST |
It seems that people may perceive that you have already made eye contact. See: http://graphics.stanford.edu/papers/eye_contact/paper.pdf [Figure 3. Sensitivity to eye appearance, experiment 2.] where a male with dark brown eyes wearing glasses was perceived more than others as having made eye contact. Also see: http://www.rmit.edu.au/departments/ps/staffpgs/jackson/Lecture12.doc "In forming impressions of other people, most of us pay attention not only to the relatively static cues such as appearance and attractiveness but also to the more dynamic, stylistic aspects of a person's behaviour. Static cues - Reveal information in forming initial impressions" (may include glasses) And finally, http://hamp.hampshire.edu/~enhF94/kinesics.html "How do we communicate with those we don't know?" "In his book The First Four Minutes (1972), Leonard Zunin suggests that we communicate with those we don't know mostly through our eyes. We pay great attention to eyes in our culture, he says, as evidenced by the great amounts of eye-care products available: makeup, contact lenses, eyelashes, glasses, etcetera. "Finally, Zunin describes the 'Look-away priority,' a norm which guides a stranger who is looking at someone to look away after eye contact is made. Slightly prolonging the look-away, of course, is seen as a sign of attraction or of dominance." A possible hypothesis may be that if you notice that others look away, they may believe that they have already made eye contact and even that they may find you attractive. |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: neilzero-ga on 08 Nov 2002 10:24 PST |
I think your hypothesis is correct, but stay with minor, momentary, ephemerial, to avoid being inhibited about your new glasses. Neil |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: feivel-ga on 11 Nov 2002 10:26 PST |
Placing an ARC (antireflective coating) on your specs (usually around $50.00) makes them nearly invisible. |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: feivel-ga on 11 Nov 2002 10:27 PST |
put the last two comments together and you have essentially a non-issue |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: gasoline-ga on 11 Nov 2002 11:27 PST |
I appreciate the comments from all. To clarify my situation: I wear very contemporary, low-correction glasses and they are quite inobtrusive. I have an AR coating on them as well. When I have conversations with friends and family I notice no difference in behavior, and my girlfriend has indicated that she doesn't see my glasses as an impediment to our eye contact. To those who also wear glasses and don't find the same to be true - observe carefully the way other people's eyes focus on your face, for how long, and on what feature. The change in behaviour is subtle but real. Again, this is when encounters occur with strangers in passing, where no personal capital is affecting the encounter partner's perception and reaction. |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: aga-ga on 11 Nov 2002 14:09 PST |
A more important issue would be the change in wave-lengths absorbed. Ott patented a glass that let UV through because he believed this was a health issue. ( This was for glazing, but it was over 15 years ago that I reaearched this issue.) It may be that there are subtle variations in Vit. D manufacture in the body, and that melatonin production is altered and IMO this would be the most likely reason why dark glasses may effect the immune system. |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: feivel-ga on 11 Nov 2002 15:21 PST |
aga: that's very interesting. does it have anything even remotely to do with the question that was posed? |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: jenjerina-ga on 11 Nov 2002 20:33 PST |
Hi Gasoline, I don't wear glasses but I understand what you're talking about. I think you're absolutely correct. From my own experience on 'the other side' I think its harder to 'connect' with someone who wears glasses, not long term just an instant when you first look at someone. Perhaps that thin barrier 'distances' people. Just thought I'd tell you so you don't think you're going crazy and nobody believes you! If there is no study, perhaps you should do one yourself! How interesting. Jenjerina |
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Re: Does wearing eyeglasses inhibit momentary connection with others?
From: mich1-ga on 01 Dec 2002 08:43 PST |
Yes I feel the same as you, especially when I am looking at the Gioconda at the Louvres museum. She looks back at me funny and I dont like it... |
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