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Q: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE ! ( Answered 5 out of 5 stars,   9 Comments )
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Subject: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
Category: Miscellaneous
Asked by: cryptica-ga
List Price: $5.00
Posted: 20 Mar 2003 16:42 PST
Expires: 19 Apr 2003 17:42 PDT
Question ID: 178918
I was demonstrating this site to co-workers today and we all concluded
that the high level of smarts and cleverness around here make
this an ideal place for "singles" to hook up.  But since Researchers
aren't allowed to give out personal info and nobody can fax or write
to each other, what happens if two people here hit it off? Has romance
happened? And if not, with the strict rules, how could a couple make a
Love Connection?
We couldn't decide what price to set for this question -- after all,
you can't put a price tag on love!   But since all's fair in love and
war(hmmm, maybe not not war), we chose 5 bucks.
Answer  
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
Answered By: tisme-ga on 20 Mar 2003 17:30 PST
Rated:5 out of 5 stars
 
Hello cryptica,

Although I may not have as high level of smarts and cleverness as some
of the other researchers, I believe that I can answer this question to
your satisfaction. Hopefully my fellow researchers will forgive me for
disclosing some of the top secret information to follow. (May they
remember that the customer is always right!)

I am willing to say on the record that: “there are certain channels of
communication open where researchers can communicate with each other,
and that the potential of exchanging personal information (such as
phone number) is certainly possible within this communication
framework.”

Not enough info for $5 you say? Hmmmm.....

OK, On the record: “I can confirm that I know of specific cases where
researchers have exchanged such personal information.”

What?? Still not happy??? I will give you one more tidbit, but ONLY if
you agree not to ask for any other bits of gossip:

My final statement: “Certain researchers HAVE relationships that have
gone beyond the electronic constraints of the Internet.”

tisme-ga

Request for Answer Clarification by cryptica-ga on 20 Mar 2003 18:04 PST
Not so fast, Tisme!  I appreciate cryptic answers -- hey, my handle
says it all.  But you haven't answered the part about the COMMENTERS,
the non-researchers.  If a "civilian" were to fall in love with a
researcher, how could info be traded without one or both of them
getting nailed by "management?"   And would two COMMENTERS be allowed
to swap personal info?  I know the researchers have their newsletter,
so I can see how information could be gotten easily.  But how about
for everyone else?  On behalf of the yearning masses, we want to know
what to do should Cupid Strike. . .if he/she hasn't already.
And if there are any non-researchers reading this, feel free to pass
on
your secrets!   Secret901, yes I saw that thread . . .which only adds
to the delicious possibilities of international romance.

Clarification of Answer by tisme-ga on 20 Mar 2003 18:54 PST
hehehe... OK I read it as "Researchers OR Commenters Falling in Love!"

Well, I think missy put it best in the comments section: "Persistence
pays off.  If a Researcher wanted to get together with a customer, or
vice versa, the clever suitor could manage.  It's all about knowing
how and where to look!"

The same would hold true for a commenter trying to get in contact with
a commenter. I can think of a few technically legal ways for a
commenter to give information about themselves to a researcher/other
commenter.

-One could design a website which prompts the user (before allowing
access) for their Google Answers nickname, and a message could be
smuggled through when a certain person fills in their nick. This
website would be advertised to the GA community by posting a question
asking for "tips" on how to improve said website. Person B, with an
obvious interest in Person A wouldn't miss such a question, would
they?
-Commenter A could post their website asking for a review, which has
their email address clearly displayed at the top of the page. Person B
emails Commenter A claiming to be b-ga. Person A could reply saying
"if it really is you, post this sentence as a comment on my question:
'it reeli 1s m3!'". This eliminates the probability that Person B is
simply a troll who has a crush on Person A (and is not the real Person
B).

Perhaps not the two greatest ideas, but you will need to forgive me as
I do not have as high levels of smarts and cleverness as some of the
other researchers.

In reply to: "would two COMMENTERS be allowed to swap personal info?"
My Response: privately? nope. There really is no way for one person to
post information that is not viewed by all researchers and commentors.
Unless the two commenters are able to devise a method of encryption
(through public posts) I see no way to do this. Posting an email
address (or even changing a nick to an email address, confirming that
this has been done with the original nick of course for security),
might be removed before person B can read the message. How about a
commentor posting a question with a URL to another forum (saying that
they are nick 'thisismynickthere' and that they want researchers to
spell check their profile. This could be directed to a certain
researcher, or the question could be: Would this profile impress
personIHaveaCrushOn-ga? Of course the profile would list an email
address!

Also in reply to: "I know the researchers have their newsletter, so I
can see how information could be gotten easily."
My Response: Nope... this isn't really how researchers exchange
personal information. There is a top secret organization which
utilizes and makes possible an advanced communication infrastructure
between researchers, while allowing researchers to maintain a high
level of privacy. Access to this network is completely optional and
not all researchers chose to participate.

All the best,

tisme-ga

Request for Answer Clarification by cryptica-ga on 20 Mar 2003 20:10 PST
Now THAT'S what I call an answer, Tisme! You may go down in
history as the Ultimate Matchmaker.  I'm rating you 5 stars.

Clarification of Answer by tisme-ga on 20 Mar 2003 22:11 PST
Thank you for the kind words, the five stars and the tip!

tisme-ga
cryptica-ga rated this answer:5 out of 5 stars and gave an additional tip of: $5.00
If Google be the food of love, play on!

Comments  
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: pafalafa-ga on 20 Mar 2003 16:45 PST
 
I definitely have a crush!
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: secret901-ga on 20 Mar 2003 17:37 PST
 
Hi cryptica-ga,
The answer to this question might interest you:
http://answers.google.com/answers/main?cmd=threadview&id=178189

secret901
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: pinkfreud-ga on 20 Mar 2003 17:44 PST
 
A romance between two Google Answers Researchers is, I think, going to
happen sooner or later (if it has not happened already.) The situation
would be rather more difficult if a Researcher and a GA customer were
to develop a personal affection for one another, since we are not
supposed to have contact with our customers outside of GA.

But I'm sure it could all be worked out, if the motivation were there.
You know the old adage, "Love will find a way." Or, in the case of
milkmaids, a whey. Blessed are the cheesemakers. ;-)
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: missy-ga on 20 Mar 2003 18:00 PST
 
Rumor has it that one of the guys in the Google office is a real
cutie-pie...OK, not so much a rumor as fact... ;)

Tisme is right, there are indeed Researchers whose bonds go beyond the
confines of the Internet.  Several of us have met, many more *will*
meet, and eventually, there's going to be a serious pair up somewhere.
 It's inevitable, I think, having seen a dozen matches and two
weddings (soon to be three) spring from a tight-knit Usenet group.

Persistence pays off.  If a Researcher wanted to get together with a
customer, or vice versa, the clever suitor could manage.  It's all
about knowing how and where to look!

--Missy
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: pinkfreud-ga on 20 Mar 2003 18:12 PST
 
There is always the problem of stalkers who choose to view themselves
as 'suitors', so I urge a great deal of caution before encouraging any
kind of personal relationship over the Internet.

That said, I must mention that, although I am an old married lady,
I've found several commenters to be quite charming, and if I were half
my age and single again, I'd be sorely tempted.
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: aceresearcher-ga on 20 Mar 2003 19:50 PST
 
cryptica,

I should NEVER have Answered that Coral Question for you. It's obvious
that we've created a monster here in you! ;-)

Researchers do have their own venue for discussing work-related issues
with each other, and it's not just romances that can blossom; some
great friendships have definitely come out of it. Researchers who live
near each other, or who happen to be traveling near other Researchers,
often arrange to get together. So far, I've been fortunate enough to
meet three other Researchers, and will get to meet a fourth next week.
Furthermore, there are a number of Researchers whom I have never met,
yet I still feel that I've known them for ages and that we are fast
friends -- and some of those are on the other side of the world!

You are right that the Researcher community consists of a lot of
intelligent, articulate, and witty people. It has certainly been a
blessing to be able to share their company.

Best wishes,

ace
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: cryptica-ga on 20 Mar 2003 20:21 PST
 
Ace --
Yep, after only a week or so, I've become completely addicted to
answers.google, particularly to reading the replies to the FUN
questions.
This site reminds me of when I first started going online, back in the
"Golden Age" of modems...1987-1994'ish,in my book.  The real sense of
community, fun and generosity of spirit. Some of my closest
"real-life" friends and romances
originated online. So I'm not surprised at all that the researchers
have bonded.
I think half your customers are jealous that they don't get to be
researchers, too. I know I am!
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: rissos-ga on 21 Mar 2003 01:37 PST
 
I think a match would be quite possible, particularly given the answer
to my last question (thread outlined by secret901-ga). Researchers
aren't as localised as I expected, so plenty of scope for those of us
outside the US.
Also, some researchers have in the past given out their real names, or
other personal or professional information,so finding other methods of
contact would be very possible.
However, as with any internet forum, the main danger I see is
developing a crush on the wrong sex! People's usernames have caused
confusion before.
Subject: Re: RESEARCHERS AND/OR COMMENTERS FALLING IN LOVE !
From: journalist-ga on 19 Apr 2003 23:06 PDT
 
Rissos, you said it: "People's usernames have caused confusion
before."  I've seen more that a few customers refer to me as male.

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