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Subject: Origins of a word or phrase
Category: Miscellaneous
Asked by: calder-ga
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Posted: 23 May 2003 13:32 PDT
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Question ID: 207837
What is the origin of the phrase "Tea and Sympathy"  Does it come from
a book or a Victorian advertisement?
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Subject: Re: Origins of a word or phrase
Answered By: bobbie7-ga on 23 May 2003 14:09 PDT
Rated:4 out of 5 stars
 
Hello Calder-ga,

Thank you for your question.


According to Word for the Wise at the Merriam-Webster website, the
phrase Tea and Sympathy has its origin in the 1953 play of that name
by Robert Anderson.

Word for the Wise is a two-minute radio show written and produced by
Kathleen Taylor of WAMC, the National Public Radio affiliate in
Albany, New York, which explores the English language.

“Folks reckoning with difficulties may look for tea and sympathy. That
phrase for "caring and hospitable behavior toward a troubled person"
has its origin in the 1953 play of that name by Robert Anderson.”

Merriam-Webster: Word for the Wise 
http://www.merriamwebster.com/wftw/01jun/061201.htm


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From the Phrase Finder:


“The phrase comes from the title of Robert Anderson's play of 1953
about the problems faced by a sensitive teenage schoolboy accused of
homosexuality. The 'tea and sympathy' in question is provided by the
housemaster's wife. A film version followed in 1956.

All you supposed to do is every once in a while give the boys a little
tea and sympathy.

Tea and sympathy: Caring and hospitable behavior towards a troubled
person.”

ROBERT ANDERSON: _Tea and Sympathy_, Act I (1953) 
From _Brewer's Dictionary of Modern Phrase & Fable_ (2000) by Adrian
Room

The Phrase Finder: Tea and Sympathy
http://phrases.shu.ac.uk/bulletin_board/17/messages/351.html


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Robert Anderson, American playwright who’s greatest success was in the
1950’s and 1960’s.  Among his plays are Tea and Sympathy and You Know
I Can’t Hear You When the Waters Running.
http://www.campbell.edu/faculty/marting/Intro/vocab5.doc



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I hope this helps. If anything is unclear please request clarification
and I'll be glad to offer further assistance before you rate my answer
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Best Regards,
Bobbie7-ga
calder-ga rated this answer:4 out of 5 stars and gave an additional tip of: $2.00
Good answer this helps me a lot.

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Subject: Re: Origins of a word or phrase
From: bobbie7-ga on 23 May 2003 21:36 PDT
 
Thank you for the tip.
I am glad to have helped.
--Bobbie7

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