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Finding Girlfriend
Category: Relationships and Society > Relationships Asked by: lostworld-ga List Price: $10.00 |
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10 Jun 2002 03:01 PDT
Expires: 13 Jun 2002 15:03 PDT Question ID: 24076 |
How to find a girlfriend if I live in the Bay Area, CA? |
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Re: Finding Girlfriend
Answered By: easterangel-ga on 10 Jun 2002 03:34 PDT Rated:  |
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Hi! Thanks for the question. In terms of the Internet there are a variety of people search services you could use which breaksdown the query to a particular area or city. The following websites woule be of help. Bay Area.com has a people search facility to find people in the Bay Area http://yp.bayarea.com/bin/cgiqa.dll?MEM=1201 The next sites are general people search sites but maybe better than Bay Area.com since this is their specialty. Yahoo People Search http://people.yahoo.com/ Who Where from Lycos http://www.whowhere.lycos.com/ Big Foot http://www.bigfoot.com/ Switchboard.com http://www.switchboard.com/ People Search http://peoplesearch.net/ Any Who http://www.anywho.com/ You can also find your girlfriend using offline and traditional means. People Trackers California http://www.peopletrackers.com/psca.html I hope this helps you. Thanks for being a part of Google Answers and I hope you find your girlfriend. Regards, Easterangel-ga | |
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Re: Finding Girlfriend
From: j_philipp-ga on 10 Jun 2002 03:41 PDT |
Easterangel, I don't think the questioner is looking for a girlfriend he *lost*, but he wants to find a completely new one -- of yet unknown name & address. But then again, I could be wrong, or maybe I misunderstood your answer. Good luck to you and Lostworld. |
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Re: Finding Girlfriend
From: knowledge_seeker-ga on 10 Jun 2002 07:13 PDT |
The best way to "find" a girlfriend is to go out into the real world (not the artificial world of dating services and singles bars) and do all the things you love to do. Get absorbed in life! Eventually you will meet a woman who is doing those things as well. Then trust me, the sparks will fly! Best of Luck -- K~ |
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Re: Finding Girlfriend
From: jeanluis-ga on 10 Jun 2002 09:39 PDT |
I agree with knowledge_seeker, you have to get out there, I do know people who have used online dating services, and it has worked in some cases, but in my expirence it is a lot more fun to do it the old fashioned way: Get out there meet some ladies, and go for it! Here are some things that I did to meet women back when I was single (2 years ago): Join a gym, and go regularly, this makes you look and feel better, which makes attracting the ladies much easier. It also gives you the chance to possibly meet women at the gym, but I would't count on it... Take a class with a friend or by your self! Take a cooking class, or a photography class, take a dance class! If you are by yourself, be confident, and be social, talk to people about the class, about the teacher, about anything, just talk to people, (men and women, remember men can introduce you to women, plus women will see what a social butterfly you are, and will think, "wow I bet he is fun to hang out with"). I took a swing dance class, and I met a TON of women in class, and even more when I went out swing dancing. It was great way to meet women, and it was alot of fun, AND women really like guys who can dance, it was a win-win situation. Once you start doing stuff and start meeting women, then you have to ask women out. This is the easy part, the hard part is actually meeting women. Just pick someone that you like, and ask her out, be confident! If she says no, politely brush it off, and say something like "ok maybe some other time". Move on, don't dwell on it, and do NOT let it get you down! When a women says yes (you might be surprised at how often women actually DO want to go out with you, so dont be scared) and you go out with her, listen to her! ask her questions about her, be interested in her, joke around, make her laugh, have FUN. Do not blab on and on about yourself, focus on her. Believe me it works, I went from being a couch potato with ZERO women, to having a bunch of women that I could call and ask out at any time. AND I even had a bunch of women calling me to see if I wanted to hang out/have dinner/party/etc... The trick is just getting out there and doing it, because no one can do it for you! --jld |
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Re: Finding Girlfriend
From: lostworld-ga on 11 Jun 2002 02:00 PDT |
My situation is a bit special since I am a software engineer and I use to live in an environment where few females are around. I do not look bad at all and have fairly successful career for my age (late 20's). When I went to Europe and some other places around the world there were interested ladies around almost everyday, but I don't have any other reasons to move there. The fact that I am an Asian further complicates things. I personally don't pre-select based on race, but somehow the women here are usually intimated or tend to feel suspicious when it comes to interacting with me. There are no other places I have visited worse than here in terms of finding an intimate opposite-sex companion. Moreover, the general expectation here seems to be that as long as the woman is beautiful, she has done all she has to do. I couldn't figure out any other reasons to explain what I saw, and a lot of the women expected me to be enthusiastic about them right from the start, which is something I cannot do unless I am willing to be dishonest. |
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Re: Finding Girlfriend
From: jeanluis-ga on 11 Jun 2002 07:01 PDT |
Well be patient, get involved, and don't waste your time with stuck up women. One day, if you lead an active lifestyle, you will find a normal down to earth woman who you have a lot in common with and it will happen... It takes lots of time, but it is worth it. |
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