I am looking for a magazine article titled "Is she the One?" and has
the following paragraph:

You are totally in love with you woman and you think she's your
perfect match: your sole mate.  Terrific! But have you considered the
bigger picture?

You know she's out there somewhere, and you have a sneaking suspicion
the one you have in your life right now might be her; you know, 'the
one.'  You've bounced it off your friends and family a few times to
gauge their repsonce, and they all say the same thing: "As long as
you're happy."  This, my love-struck friend, is the best advice anyone
could give you.

Which magazine, when and who was the writer of the story?

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Request for Question Clarification by tlspiegel-ga on 31 Jan 2004 17:00 PST

Hi dbb,

I did some research on your question and found 3 articles with the
title "Is She The One?", but they didn't have the paragraph you posted
in your question.

Can you provide any more information - such as was this in a men's
magazine, in the newspaper, etc.

Best regards,
tlspiegel

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Clarification of Question by dbb-ga on 01 Feb 2004 04:19 PST

I am not sure what type of magazine or newspaper this article may have
appeared.  All I was told that it was copied off the Internet.  So I
am trying to find where it may have been copied.

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Clarification of Question by dbb-ga on 01 Feb 2004 04:33 PST

I have been told that the article was copied off the Internet.  Other
parts of the article are:

And what about the bedroom?  Are you sexually compatible?  Is she "in
the mood" as much as you are?  Does she like to experiment and try new
things in bed?  Remember that lovemaking allows two people to engage
in the highest for of intimacy, and if you're not compatible in the
sack it will have tremendous repercusions elsewhere in the
relationship.

Now the article's title "Is she The One?" may have been changed from
the one copied off the Internet, but the content of the article has
been copied verbatum from an article appearing on the Internet.

I need to find where on the Internet the article was copied.  I've
tried finding it myself using Google's Advanced Search but with no
success.

DBB

Hi DBB,

I am confident the article you are searching for is called ?Is She
Marriage Material?? written by Andre Cross.

The following are a few excerpts to verify this is indeed the one you
are asking about:

?You've been dating this woman for a while now, but you're not sure
whether she's "The One." You know she's attentive and affectionate,
but what other qualities should your bride-to-be possess?
Although the two of you get along well, there are things you would
like to change about her. Maybe it's the annoying way she chews her
food, or the fact that she has a potty mouth. But are these things
enough to rule her out??
(?)
?Are you sexually compatible? Is she "in the mood" as often as you
are? Does she like to try new things under the sheets? Remember that
lovemaking allows couples to engage in the highest form of intimacy.
If you're not compatible in bed, it will have repercussions elsewhere
in the relationship.?

The entire article can be found at AskMen.com
http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/32_dating_tips.html


Another article you may be looking for, which is also written by Andre
Cross, is called Is She The Right One?

?The eternal game of love is a ritual that keeps many of us busy for
the majority of our lives. If we stop to think about it, how many of
our partners are now a thing of the past? Probably most of them. It's
difficult to find that one person who will respect and love us forever
and vice versa.?
(?)
?There is that initial inner feeling of "is she the one?" that we all
entertain every time we begin dating certain women. But in this
particular case, the feeling is still intense even after a few months
into the relationship. This is when men start asking themselves
questions about the severity of their "addictions" toward their women.
They begin their silent inquiry regarding how much they really care
for their women because this may actually be the time to settle down
with "the one".?

The article can be found here:
http://www.askmen.com/dating/datingadvice/21_dating_tips.html


Search strategy:

I tried different variations of the excerpts you gave. The one that
hit the mark are the terms:

bedroom ?Are you sexually compatible??
://www.google.com/search?num=50&hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&newwindow=1&q=+bedroom+%22Are+you+sexually+compatible%3F%22&btnG=Google+Search

other keywords are:

"Is she the one?" 
://www.google.com/search?num=50&hl=en&lr=&ie=UTF-8&oe=UTF-8&newwindow=1&q=%22Is+she+the+One%3F%22+&btnG=Google+Search


I hope the information provided is helpful. If anything is unclear, or
this isn?t the article you are looking for, please let me know so I
can further assist you before rating my answer.

Best regards,
rainbow-ga

Great job!