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Q: Finding groups/clubs in San Diego, CA for meeting women my age. ( Answered 4 out of 5 stars,   3 Comments )
Subject: Finding groups/clubs in San Diego, CA for meeting women my age.
Category: Relationships and Society > Romance
Asked by: thesandiegoguy-ga
List Price: $10.00
Posted: 26 Feb 2004 12:53 PST
Expires: 27 Mar 2004 12:53 PST
Question ID: 311121
  I'm a 34 year old male, relatively new to San Diego CA, and I'd like
to get a really good list of those possible San Diego clubs, groups
and organizations that I could join which would be the most helpful in
meeting single women around my age or a few years younger.

I would especially be interested in any ones related to dogs, perhaps
volunteer opportunities in that area.  I'm not as interested in
organizations focused on playing sports.

An example organization that I found is called the Athletic Singles
Org. ( Though I'm not very interested
in playing organized sports, this club does seem to be largly focused
on singles meeting other singles, so I'd consider joining it and
participating in activities.

Any insight you can give me on the costs of joining these clubs would
be appreciated too.  For example, the Athletic Singles org. I
mentioned above doesn't say how much it costs to join, but I suspect
it might be pretty high, as they give away a nice gift if you come to
their potential memebership meeting.

Thanks for any help you can give me!
Subject: Re: Finding groups/clubs in San Diego, CA for meeting women my age.
Answered By: umiat-ga on 27 Feb 2004 17:49 PST
Rated:4 out of 5 stars
Hello, thesandiegoguy-ga! 

 Here are some groups that look interesting. The "Single Volunteers of
San Diego" sounds like a great organization and you could fit your
love of dogs right in there by organizing your own group volunteer


"Single Volunteers was envisioned as an alternative to bars, personal
ads, blind dates and dating services for singles to meet while
performing worthwhile and productive services in the community.
Volunteers are notified by e-mail about project opportunities, and
teams of volunteers are assembled on a per-project basis. Individual
team size is usually determined by the scope of the project. At the
completion of any given project, a friendly social gathering is
usually held at some unfortunate nearby pizza parlor or like
establishment, where stories and introductions are passed around."

"Everyone is looking for quality in a partner. People who freely give
of their time and energy to help others are generally some of the most
quality people around!"

"Projects cover a full range of activities and there are activities
for everyone. Examples of some projects are helping plant trees, beach
clean-ups, repairing low income housing, graffiti clean-ups, passing
out food during the holidays and so much more. There will be a project
that you feel comfortable with where your talents are needed!"

* (Note the mention of "Animals" under the project event leader coordinator needs)

See Volunteer sign-up, where you can highlight your interest in Animals

Membership cost - Free 


"Socialize at some of the best events in town, with some of the best
people around! The Junior Chamber of Commerce (Jaycees) is the premier
organization for young adults between the ages of 21 and 39, who are
interested in FUN while developing the community and themselves
through numerous chapter programs. Our Motto is "building Tomorrow's
Leaders through Community Involvement."


Membership Cost - $85 for twelve months


"Come explore it all with the 20s & 30s Single Sierrans. We're
ecologically minded San Diegans, in our 20s & 30s, who like to hike
all day and dance the night away! One of the most active singles
groups in San Diego, we host events (mostly free or at a low cost to
you) that encompass a wide variety of interests, not just the outdoors
(although that is one of our favorite destinations). Take your pick
from hikes, dinners, dancing, movie nights, camping, volleyball,
barbecues, and more!


Membership Cost -  Must join the Sierra Club for $40.


"Interested in meeting your future significant other on a golf course?
 Why not?  The golf course is a great place to get to know someone. 
You don't have the kinds of distractions such as loud music and
smoke-filled rooms.  And you do get to see people at their best...and

"Think you've got to be a great golfer to join?  Not So!  Our average
(nationwide) handicap is 20.  We have some who occasionally shoot in
the 70s, but most of our members shoot in the 80s and 90s.  We also
have our fair share of those who haven't broken the century mark don't let that discourage you from joining, we all had to
start somewhere.  The most important factor is that you're committed
to the game and are willing to try to improve while having fun doing

"Any person who's single and over the age of 21 is eligible to join." 

Membership Cost - $65 per year

EAST COAST TRANSPLANTS AND FRIENDS (Are you an east coaster, or a friend?)

"East Coast Transplants & Friends Social Club for former East Coasters
in their 20's and 30's now living in Southern California. Events 2-3
times per week include softball, tennis, poker, wine tasting, happy
hours, parties, Mexico trips, ski trips and more.

Membership cost - $15/month for twelve months 

PACIFIC SPORTS AND SOCIAL CLUB (both single and married)

Aside from the sports - "We also have huge social events such as
dining, dancing, parties, movies, plays & happy hours where you can
interact with all your new friends in a slightly different, more
social atmosphere."

Membership cost - $199 for one year  


Clubs which have no website, may be outdated, or have parameters attached! 

Movies and More
"is for singles 35 and up. The group meets for two Sunday movies a
month followed by a dinner social. Other events include after-work
happy hours, dances and day trips. Call (858) 490-8012 for monthly

San Diego Tall Club 
"is a social club for tall men and women.  Membership requirements
are: All members must be 21 years of age, or older, and single at the
time of joining Minimum height for men is 6'2" Minimum height for
women is 5'10" For more information, browse this web-site, or call and
leave your name and mailing address (for a free newsletter) (858)

Truly Young Professionals (note that website link does not work!) 
"is a San Diego-area based club dedicated to bringing single, young
professionals together for weekly social activities. If you are a
college graduate, in the 25-45 age range, and used your education to
prepare for your profession, this may be the club for you!! TYP events
include fine dining; house parties; camping; tennis; miniature golf;
bowling; plays; symphony; volleyball picnics; happy hours; and more!
(This club may be defunct as I could find nothing under a web search) 


 There are several singles religious groups if you are affiliated with
a particular religion. If you would like, I can try to find one if you
have a particular faith.

 Have fun in San Diego and good luck finding a special woman!!


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thesandiegoguy-ga rated this answer:4 out of 5 stars
Thanks!  That helps a lot.  Gets me started in new directions.

Subject: Re: Finding groups/clubs in San Diego, CA for meeting women my age.
From: phil123-ga on 30 Jan 2005 08:26 PST
Another Group to consider is Adventures in San Diego ( 
Although it's not a "singles" group, most of their members are single.
They have a wide variety of events - both sports and non-sports. They
do have "pet-friendly" events.
Subject: Re: Finding groups/clubs in San Diego, CA for meeting women my age.
From: 7degrees-ga on 04 Feb 2005 15:45 PST
One method that I don't believe others mentioned is trying an online
dating service. Contrary to popular belief, these sites aren't filled
with desparate folks who simply can't find a date anywhere else.
Instead, you will find a wealth of personalities, and some really
wonderful people. Plus, most sites have there members divided into
Casual Dating, Romance and Intimate. So, whether you are looking for a
friend or serious relationship, you should be able to find someone
quite easily in the San Diego Area. Check out Gives an overview of some of
the larger dating sites available.
Subject: Re: Finding groups/clubs in San Diego, CA for meeting women my age.
From: sandiego199-ga on 04 Feb 2005 15:52 PST
One final thought - similar to the above post, another non-singles
group that will nonetheless allow you to meet many professional women
without the meat-market feel is

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