The easiest way for me to find the right club for you and your wife
was to research male dance/strip organizations. Some don't allow men
to attend their performances (although I believe it's illegal to
prevent anyone from entering a club based on gender), but that
disclaimer at least tells us that men aren't exactly welcome by those
performance groups/clubs! Also, some clubs list themselves as "ladies'
clubs", so it's likely you wouldn't feel welcome there, even if they
do let you in.
The dancers/strippers I'm listing all seem to attract co-ed (though
still, of course, *mostly* female) audiences:
The following are dancers/strippers organizations and some information
about their shows, as well as listings of their club dates in the Los
Angeles area. You can also follow links to videos and performance
photos at each of these sites.
The male strippers Casual Obsessions perform (in groups of either 3 or
4) at various clubs in the greater Los
(That page lists their club appearances schedule.)
See comments at the group's guestbook from men who were in attendance
with their girlfriends:
The Hollywood Men:
From their FAQ:
"Q. ARE MEN ALLOWED TO ATTEND THE SHOWS?
A. IT IS ILLEGAL AND DISCRIMINATORY TO PRECLUDE ENTRY TO ANYONE BASED
ON THEIR SEX . . . ."
The Hollywood Men:
Scroll down to see performance information:
The Hollywood Arena, Hollywood.
Friday at 9:00 PM (doors open for seating at 8:00)
Saturday at 8:00 PM (doors open for seating at 7:00)
"Latins Finest" perform every Thursday night at Studio 69 at Club
Camacho's, located in the City of Industry:
Several members of the Chippendales, along with Hard Bodies, also
perform there on Thursdays:
The club is located at 13101 Crossroads Parkway, City Of Industry.
For more information call 1-626-259-3582
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I hope my research is of help to you. If you have any questions or
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