Hello.
The oldest child will get the flag.
The rule is that the flag goes to "primary next of kin" (PNOK).
"h. Flag and Flag Case. A flag of the United States, with plastic flag
case, is authorized for the primary next of kin and the parent or
parents of the deceased military authorized for the primary next of
kin and the parent or parents of the deceased military member (if
parents are other than primary next of kin).
(1) Next of kin flag. The next of kin flag is used to drape the casket
at the funeral home and during interment services. After interment
services, the flag is folded, placed in the flag case, and presented
to the primary next of kin.
(2) Parent's flag. When the parents are not the primary next of kin, they are
authorized to receive a flag and flag case. This flag may also be
presented at the interment service or if they are not present at the
interment, it is mailed to them."
source:
US Army - Lesson 6 - Disposition of the Deceased
https://hosta.atsc.eustis.army.mil/cgi-bin/atdl.dll/accp/md0755/755les6.pdf
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Where there is no wife, then the oldest child is "primary next of kin."
The Primary Next of Kin (PNOK) line of succession is as follows:
(a) Spouse.
(b) Sons or daughters in the order of seniority.
(c) Oldest parent unless legal custody granted to another person.
(d) Blood or adoptive relative granted legal custody.
(e) Brothers or sisters in the order of seniority.
(f) Oldest grandparent.
(g) Other relative in accordance with laws of deceased's domicile.
source:
US Army - Lesson 6 - Disposition of the Deceased
https://hosta.atsc.eustis.army.mil/cgi-bin/atdl.dll/accp/md0755/755les6.pdf
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