Where would I find networking/chat room sites for financial advisors in the US?

Try ReferNet (http://www.refernet.net), an online business networking
website. They do have many financial advisors you could business
network with.

Here's their feature list:
<ul>
<li>Secure Environment - our online environment is 128-bit SSL
Encrypted. Your transactions are secure and protected. We use the same
enterprise-class technology as most online banking and stock trading
systems!

<li> Referral manager - you may manage your personal referrals in a
secure and private environment.

<li> Group manager - you may create groups such as alumni
associations, special interest groups, support groups, business
networking groups, etc..

<li> Advanced business people search capability. We don't limit you to
just keyword searches. You may search by professional expertise,
location, name, goals, interests, and more.

<li> Advanced group search capability. 

<li> Discussion forums - both public and private. 

<li> Private inbox messaging, protected with 128-bit SSL encryption.
Tired of spam? We're not talking about the luncheon meat! We're
talking about those annoying un-wanted junk e-mails from rogue
marketing companies. Use our system to only receive messages from
people within our trusted business referral network.

<li> Unlike Hotmail and Yahoo Mail, our secure server provides extra
protection by encrypting messages moving from our server to your
internet browser and vise versa.

<li> Your messages are securely stored in our database, not within an
open file system like traditional email services.

<li> Public and private event scheduler - schedule a private meet-up
with your business associates or organize a public mixer and invite
everyone.

<li> Business referral network analysis - we show you how many people
you have in your business network and a summary of how many people you
could potentially ask for referrals within each degree of separation.

<li> Financial calculators - we offer powerful online financial
calculators for real estate professionals, financial advisors, and
loan officers.

<li> Contact manager - internet enable your rolodex and access it from
anywhere(that has internet connectivity)!

<li> Job listings - looking for a job? We have many job leads! 

</ul>

Thank you. However,this is not what I'm looking for. I'm looking for a
website created for financial advisors with the capability of
e-mailing and networking directly with one another.

Thank you

I'm not sure what you're looking for really, you might try
http://www.insuranceagentforum.com/