I want to go to performance driving school. The kind where they show u
how to handle well while driving fast in really cool obsticle courses
and real roads and whatnot. I whip a 2000 Audi A4 1.8t 5-sp. Its
decently fast, and i wanna learn how to drive it like a pro. Another
thing, I'm 18 years old. What are some driving schools where i can
learn to drive really fast, really well?

I found a couple, but they are in places like georgia and california
that are too far away for me. I live in Princeton, NJ, but I'm going
to school in Durham, NC, so anywhere close to either of these places
is golden.

Your not going to attend a driving school and be driving like a 'pro'.
I've taken various performance driving schools from both Skip Barber
and Bob Bondurant and learned a lot. I suggest you join a local
chapter of the SCCA and have fun.  I hope daddys loaded, as high
performance driving is very expensive. A $1000 set of tires can go up
in smoke in just a couple of hours.