Hello gladys1-ga,
In most cases, physical signs of sexual abuse are not common, no
matter how often the abuse occurs. Of course, with certain ways of
sexual abuse, such as any sort of penetration of a child, you would
think there would be signs, however, being that the human body is
built the way it is, sometimes it can be very hard to tell.
Example: You would think with vaginal intercourse, a female child
would have her hymen broken from the abuse. However, that's not a
definitive sign of abuse, as it ca break from many activities, or the
child's own natural curiosity. Horseback riding, gymnastics, accident,
injury... all can be causes.
More information:
http://www.starmatrimonials.com/hymen.asp?acode=
http://www.webster-dictionary.org/definition/Hymen
Google Search: Hymen Breaking
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Also, if your considering that there would be signs of abuse from
sodomy during the abuse, that can also not be evident as the rectum is
meant to be elastic, and without tearing, can return to it?s original
state very quickly.
Now, Sexual abuse is not always involving penetration. Sexual Abuse
Can Be Physical, Verbal, or Emotional. It can include touching,
exposing children to adult material, such as films and pictures,
having a child pose in a sexual fashion, a child being watched by an
adult, such as a ?peeping tom? scenario, or rape. The best definition
for this is: Sexual abuse involves forcing, tricking, threatening, or
pressuring a child into sexual awareness or activity.
?Physical evidence of abuse is rare. Therefore, we must look for
behavior signs. Unfortunately, there is no one behavior alone that
definitely determines a child has been sexually abused. ?
From http://www.coolnurse.com/sexual_abuse.htm
Typically, the signs of sexual abuse are as follows.
Depression
Eating Disorders
Sleep disturbances
Nightmares
Physical complaints
School problems
Withdrawal from family, friends, or usual activities
Excessive bathing or poor hygiene
Anxiety
Running away
Passive or overly pleasing behavior
Low self-esteem
Self-destructive behavior
Hostility or aggression
Drug or alcohol problems
Sexual activity or pregnancy at an early age; promiscuity
Suicide attempts
Copying adult sexual behavior
Sexual play with other children, themselves, toys or pets
Displaying sexual knowledge, through language or behavior, that is
beyond what is normal for their age
Unexplained pain, swelling, bleeding or irritation of the mouth,
genital or anal area; urinary infections; sexually transmitted
diseases
Hints, indirect comments or statements about the abuse
So, as you can see, it?s much more psychological symptoms that prevail.
Once again, mentioned here?
?Unfortunately, there are often no obvious signs that a child has been
sexually abused. Because sexual abuse often occurs in private, and
because it often does not result in physical evidence, child sexual
abuse can be difficult to detect.?
http://www.ncptsd.org/facts/specific/fs_child_sexual_abuse.html
If the child had been abused before, and there were physical signs of
evidence, such as scarring, or the hymen being broken, etc, it would
make it much harder to determine when the signs came from. One of the
best things I could suggest is if the child tells you that she has
been abused; ask a physician to do a ?rape kit? on them, searching for
bodily fluids of another. This would be an accurate determinate, but
must be done ASAP after the abuse. Most signs disappear within 24-72
hours, and it?s best if the child has not bathed or cleaned up.
?The attacker may have left behind pieces of evidence such as clothing
fibers, hairs, saliva or semen that may help identify him. In most
hospitals, a "rape kit" is used to help collect evidence. A rape kit
is a standard kit with little boxes, microscope slides and plastic
bags for collecting and storing evidence. Samples of evidence may be
used in court.?
http://familydoctor.org/x1976.xml
Google Search: Rape Kit
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In addition, being that physical evidence can be so hard to locate, I
recommend you speak with a therapist and an organization in your area
to report this suspected abuse, such as the Department of Human
Services or similar agency in your area.
?Therefore, correctly diagnosing abuse is often complex. Conclusive
physical evidence of sexual abuse is relatively rare in suspected
cases. For all of these reasons, when abuse is suspected, an
appropriately trained health professional should be consulted.?
http://www.apa.org/releases/sexabuse/
In addition, you may want to read this journal article about signs of
abuse that are physical and other information. You may want to take it
with you if you?re going to have your child physically examined for
signs of sexual abuse.
?Because the examination findings of most child victims of sexual
abuse are within normal limits or are nonspecific, the child's
statements are extremely important. The child's history as obtained by
the physician may be admitted as evidence in court trials; therefore,
complete documentation of questions and answers is critical. A careful
history should be obtained and a thorough physical examination should
be performed with documentation of all findings. When examining the
child's genitalia, it is important that the physician be familiar with
normal variants, nonspecific changes and diagnostic signs of sexual
abuse. Judicious use of laboratory tests, along with appropriate
therapy, should be individually tailored. Forensic evidence collection
is indicated in certain cases. Referral for psychologic services is
important because victims of abuse are more likely to have depression,
anxiety disorders, behavioral problems and post-traumatic stress
disorder. (Am Fam Physician 2001;63:883-92.)?
http://www.aafp.org/afp/20010301/883.html
Additional Google Search: sexual abuse with no physical evidence
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Therefore, in conclusion, yes, it could be possible that a child of
that age may show no physical signs of being abused, no matter how
many times. Psychological symptoms prevail much more. In addition,
previous abuse signs that are physical could cloud the diagnosis of
new signs.
If this answer requires further explanation, please request
clarification before rating it, and I'll be happy to look into this
further.
Nenna-GA
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