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What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
Category: Health > Conditions and Diseases Asked by: augusta-ga List Price: $5.00 |
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02 Oct 2004 23:24 PDT
Expires: 01 Nov 2004 22:24 PST Question ID: 409563 |
I would like to know what techniques have been shown to be effective in increasing self-esteem in adults. I would like to know what measures can be taken to take to address the problem of low self-esteem in adults. I am only interested in techniquess that have been shown to be effective by reputable pyschological studies or that are respected within the psychology community. I am not interested in ideas that are merely popular or interesting. |
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Re: What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
From: nautico-ga on 02 Oct 2004 23:52 PDT |
The best way to improve one's self-esteem is to achieve something that's esteemable. The kinds of techniques that you probably have in mind are all about process, not substance. Stated otherwise, they're a reflection of psychobabble and, if followed, can only yield an illusory sense of self-esteem. |
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Re: What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
From: augusta-ga on 03 Oct 2004 05:36 PDT |
The individual should attain achievements that he/she attributes value to or holds in high esteem. So here is a system that I could construct from this: Step 1 - Determine what the values of the individual are. Step 2 - Produce a set of realistic goals based on these values. Step 3 - Create plans for the achievement of these goals. Step 4 - Monitor the execution of the plans. Step 5 - Identify and effectively address the external and internal problems that arise during the execution of the plans. Step 6 - Continue 4 & 5 until goals are achieved (Eliminate, modify or add goals depending on how execution of plans go.) How does that sound? I would still appreciate an answer to my question that goes beyond speculation and personal opinion. |
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Re: What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
From: daizy1-ga on 04 Oct 2004 03:53 PDT |
When you know you are well liked by others you naturaly find your self more likeable. You're too woried about cold hard facts. Open up, and try to enjoy life a little more. I think you were offered some great ideas. Instead of dissmising them as not being close enough to "fact", you should think of what was offered to you. Not every one will respond the same to all forms of treatment. Find what makes YOU feel good about you! Good luck. |
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Re: What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
From: augusta-ga on 04 Oct 2004 06:31 PDT |
Here's my distillation of daizy1-ga's approach to increasing self-esteem: 1. Come to know that you are well liked by others. 2. Open up. 3. Try to enjoy life a little more. 4. Find what makes YOU feel good about you! In my opinion these suggestions are of poor quality. #1: People with low self-esteem tend not to be well-liked by others because they underperform and are generally unhappy. So to become well-liked you must first address the low self-esteem problem. #2: Doesn't really mean anything. It's very imprecise. #3: Again, a pre-requisite to achieving this is resolving the low self-esteem problem. #4: Is also very imprecise. It does not suggest what actions to take. |
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Re: What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
From: jackburton-ga on 05 Oct 2004 07:12 PDT |
"Self-Esteem: A Proven Program of Cognitive Techniques for Assessing, Improving, and Maintaining Your Self-Esteem" by Matthew McKay, Patrick Fanning ($11.17) Book Description Offering proven cognitive techniques for overcoming destructive views and fears, Self-Esteem is a classic guide to challenging the inner critic. Starting with how to recognize the self-critical voice that can be so damaging and insidious, the authors suggest practical ways to realize what is happening, stop self-judgment, gain perspective, and heal past wounds. The result is an exciting opportunity to change core beliefs about one's identity and potential. New to the third edition is an exploration of the importance of goal setting in maintaining self-esteem. http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/redirect?tag=moneysavingga-20&path=tg/detail/-/1572241985 |
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Re: What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
From: augusta-ga on 05 Oct 2004 07:29 PDT |
That's more like it. Thanks. However, in my opinioon an effective technique would involve actual actions in the world rather than just internal tinkering with thoughts, feelings, attitudes, etc... I like the idea of acheiving goals that the individual holds in high esteem. But this is good. Thanks again. |
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Re: What are proven ways to increase self-esteem?
From: jimbo40-ga on 28 Dec 2004 12:54 PST |
Research into 'self esteem' is necessarily limited, as with much psychologial research, as the subject matter is highly subjective. Measurements of self esteem based on self-scored questionnaires have been used extensively in psychological research, but even here the subjective apsects of the recording process make any consclusions formed rather conditional. Hypnosis can have a valuable impact for many individuals. Physical exercise has also been shown to improve self esteem. Finally, as indicated by another respondent, actual achievement against goals has been shown to raise self esteem. The following websites are useful resources : http://www.psychology.com http://www.confidenceclub.net |
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