i want to know the exact steps to take in order to change the head
gasket on a 1995 hyundai sonata v6 (mitsubishi engine) with pictures
of teh steps

You may want to look into buying a Haynes repair manual for your car.

http://www.haynes.com/

If you have to ask, then you should give this a lot of thought. 
Tearing down an engine to replace a head gasket is not for the
unexperienced.  You could find yourself in deep poo really quick.

A manual is nice, I would use one, but you should be able to do this
without one.  If you can't then please reconsider.  The tools alone
could run into the hundreds of dollars.  This is not a screwdriver and
pliers kind'd of thing.

Visit the hyundai website. Hyundai offers  service/repair info online,
just about the only manufacturer to do so free of charge.