Why does my married girlfriend cheat on her husband her whole 20 years
of marriage?  Why does she keep me, boyfriend number 3, when I'm so
depressed and gealous all the time?  Why would a woman stay in a
non-physical marriage?

Why would a man date a married woman, or willingingly be boyfriend number three?

Kriswrite

There is an old song by the Kingsmen that goes something like this and
may answer your question:

"They say the best things in life are free
 You can give it to the birds and bees
 I want money, lots of money child"

Applicable to your question.

The basic command ?Survive!? obeyed by all of life can be
compartmented into the eight dynamics (dynamic meaning urge, drive or
impulse). So, what are man's eight urges or umpulses?  Check out the
dynamics here:
    http://www.scientology.org/en_US/religion/description/scientology/pg002.html

Then check out ethics and the dynamics here:
     http://humanitarian.lronhubbard.org/dyn2.htm

>> Why would a woman stay in a non-physical marriage?

Only two reasons come to mind: love and money. Economic factors hold
some marriages together. Regarding love, it is quite possible to be
deeply in love with someone with whom one does not have a sexual
relationship. This is not the norm in marriage, but it works very well
for some people. Totally celibate marriages exist. A marriage
partnership can be satisfying in ways that transcend the physical.

i would rather call it a LUST for multiple things, economic, social, sexual etc..


regards,
s.ahmad

Why would a man date a married woman, or willingingly be boyfriend number three?

Kriswrite

Kriswrite,
That is a very good question with only a human answer:
Because she chose me and I thought she was the most attractive
magnetic woman I'd ever met.  How could a guy turn that down?  Didn't
find out about the history until after I fell in love.  I know, I'll
put my dunce cap on and go sit in the corner.  The thing is, no matter
what craziness I do, she keeps coming back!
 
From: redhoss-ga on 20 Oct 2004 12:20 PDT     
There is an old song by the Kingsmen that goes something like this and
may answer your question:

"They say the best things in life are free
 You can give it to the birds and bees
 I want money, lots of money child"

**WHAT?

Subject: Re: Cheating Spouses 
From: powerjug-ga on 20 Oct 2004 13:27 PDT     
Applicable to your question.

The basic command ?Survive!? obeyed by all of life can be
compartmented into the eight dynamics (dynamic meaning urge, drive or
impulse). So, what are man's eight urges or umpulses?  Check out the
dynamics here:
    http://www.scientology.org/en_US/religion/description/scientology/pg002.html
Then check out ethics and the dynamics here:
     http://humanitarian.lronhubbard.org/dyn2.htm

**THANK YOU. I WILL TAKE A LOOK AT YOUR KOOKIE SCIENTOLOGY SITES WITH AN OPEN MIND.

Subject: Re: Cheating Spouses 
From: pinkfreud-ga on 20 Oct 2004 13:46 PDT     
>> Why would a woman stay in a non-physical marriage?

Only two reasons come to mind: love and money. Economic factors hold
some marriages together. Regarding love, it is quite possible to be
deeply in love with someone with whom one does not have a sexual
relationship. This is not the norm in marriage, but it works very well
for some people. Totally celibate marriages exist. A marriage
partnership can be satisfying in ways that transcend the physical.
 
**pinkfreud, thank you for your common sense answer, but I don't
understand it. I couldn't stay with someone I was repulsed by
physically.  I believe you though. Just wouldn't work for me.  She is
one hell of a babe.  I need to move.

Subject: Re: Cheating Spouses 
From: binary_zero-ga on 21 Oct 2004 10:37 PDT     
i would rather call it a LUST for multiple things, economic, social, sexual etc..

**Concur s.ajmad.  Spoiled and selfish, but still a remarkable woman. Thanks..

regards,
s.ahmad

find someone have similar problem like me oversea.
a lot of girl will put a guy in different function trees: like BF
number one money, BF number 2 sex......because they can't get satisfy
in one man, she keeps u because u always be there be her back up,so
why she doesn't keep u if u won't cause her any trouble and u got
somethings she wants, u feel depressed because u like her and want
something from her that she will not give u(like commitment,
relationship)
it's normal u r confuse now because i just woke up by giving u comment.