I have tried the personals websites, the dating websites, but they are
just not what I am looking for.  I am looking to date someone who is
from a very affluent and prominent family.  I am looking to find a way
to meet classy girls that come from a very wealthy and sophisticated
family.  Having said that, I know they are not posted online anywhere.

How can I find them?

thank you.

- brandon

Hi BK,

You don't find them, you create the environment for the chicks to come to you.

Act as if you have already won her heart. Employ your butler to
approach Bill Gates with a business transaction on your behalf. When
Mr Gates rejects such a preposterous idea, your butler will inform him
that you are the fiance' to Cindy Crawford, Linda Lovelace, Jennifer
Hawkins or any choice of your desire. Then have your butler personally
deliver an invitation to said target to meet with you over dinner. In
clinching the blind dinner date, remember that your butler of employ
has dropped the appropriate name. Should she agree to a meeting, her
interest will be therefore based upon the shallowness of potential
sharing or fleecing of profit. You can then decide if your business
venture is real, or play it down as a maybe. Either way, you can
always say that you had dinner with Cindy, Linda or Jennifer.

:)

I have two such daughters ...

I also have a shotgun ...

Love will make you happier than money.

Hmm, whereabouts do you live? What sort of social scene is there? For
example, are there fundraisers that you could attend (you know, the
$100 a plate kind). Art galleries/openings are also good places to
meet fancier people. I would say if you want high class ladies, check
out the local arts scene :-)

"I am looking to date someone who is
from a very affluent and prominent family.  I am looking to find a way
to meet classy girls that come from a very wealthy and sophisticated
family.  Having said that . . . "

Here's a good start: 

become a member of the non-profit organization, ESOUR

or, Eliminate and Stamp Out Unnecessary Redundancy

;-)

Affluent women tend to be leery of suitors who appear to be after
their money. Rich gals tend to date and marry rich guys.

That said, my suggestion is that the best way to meet a lot of
well-to-do women is to join a country club. Country clubs are awash in
wealthy ladies, and if you are a member they will assume that you are
one of their peers.

I appreciate all of the feedback.  I wish to respond to all of your comments.

silver777:  that is quite creative, but not very honest.  i am a very
kind hearted guy that is looking to date a mature and wealthy girl,
but i will admit, i got a chuckle from your creativity.

probonopublic:  haha, that was quite funny, i am not your normal guy
that has bad intentions, if you really have such daughters, i would
love to meet them; no harm is just meeting.

daytrader:  more than likely i agree with that.

paullieannakeats:  i live in iowa.  that is a really good idea, i may
explore that one as well.

timespacette:  maybe that would be an option :)

pinkfreud:  ya, i am not after the girl's money, i just want to date
someone from an affluent family, i honestly only have good intentions.
 i belong to a country club, one small problem is that i do not want
to be introduced to someone who believes they are better than everyone
else in society because of their background; although i would have to
accept a little of that in most situations, it becomes a slight
turn-off for me; but yes that is a great idea.

Thank you all who have posted so far.  This is a great start.  I hope
I can make this happen.

I really do have two such daughters but I was lying about the shotgun ...

It is actually a Kalashnikov AK47 ...

Or was that the ballet dancer?

ok, since your heart might be in the right place, I'll help.

Figure out where the rich girls are and create situations where the
numbers favor you.  What are rich young women up to these days?  I
don't really know, but I might guess such things as yoga and dance
classes and also social work and education courses in a university
setting.  Speaking of colleges, if there is a high-priced private
school in your area, it is prime hunting ground.  The best time of the
year is when a new semester starts and people are more open to meeting
strangers.  There are legitimate non-stalker reasons to be on a campus
as a non-student, such as visiting a library or museum.

And in general, you have to be able to put forth an effort that does
not make it look like you are trying too hard.  The attitude has to be
"I'm talking to you because it happens to be the fun thing to be doing
this second" and *not* "Gee whiz, you're hot, can we go out sometime?"

http://www.pickupguide.com/layguide/

http://www.e-onlinepublishing.com/chemistry/manual.pdf

seriously Brandon, seriously . . . why?

is it the lifestyle you're after? if so, what's so great about it?

are you looking to live a life of ease?   

do you realize the psychological baggage that often comes with
'particular girls' of this description?  (no offense PB, I'm sure your
daughters are delightful and he would do well to know either one of
them ...)

it never hurts to closely examine one's motives, that's all I'm sayin'

Probonopublico:  Haha, once again, you have me laughing.  But if you
really do have two daughters, I am 19, may i meet one of them??

daytrader:  haha, thanks again for the advice, and yes I am sincere
about this.  by the way, i am a daytrader myself, i manage some
portfolios, including, obviously, my own, have any ideas??

timespacette:  i only am looking for advice in finding, not creating a
forum of debate.  thank you anyway.

thanks again everyone, keep posting.  this is great.

-brandon

Hi, Brandon

I passed on your interest to my two daughters last night and they
immediately screamed 'Ye Gods!' and burst out singing:

 Oh, there's nothing halfway
 about the Iowa way to treat you
 when we treat you
 which we may not do at all.

 There's an Iowa kind of special
 chip-on-the-shoulder attitude
 We've never been without
 that we recall

What makes this so remarkabale?

Neither can sing a note!

They confessed that they had always thought that Iowa was a musical
fantasy place like Ruritania, Lichtenburg, Brigadoon. They thought I
was joshing!

Anyway, as you do live in Iowa (River City maybe?) then you should
certainly try the 'Think System' by Harold Hill ... You will find
details in the local library (Ask for Marion and mention my name) but
beware ...

If you're not careful you could finish up dancing all over the place.

Good Luck!

probonopublico:  i am very confused.

but thanks

-brandon

dear bk, I see you're a man with a mission, not to be swayed by
thoughts of why.  Being 19, I can only guess that it must be the
hormones, but I must say you seem to have a very finely tuned and
slightly more discerning hormonal drive, as apposed to, say, a more
stereotypical Iowan male who might just head for the barnyard. Funny
how rumors get started ... I don't even know if you're really from
Iowa or not, but if you are maybe a relocation is in order. I mean how
many prominent families per square mile are there in Iowa?   If you
are indeed a daytrader, can we assume you're a successful one? Can you
afford Malibu?

Neurolinguistic Programming and the Think System are both worthwhile
pursuits ...  I think.

Well known Southern California bumper sticker:  "Malibu - A Way of
Life" ... just make the psychic shift, as they say in CA.

There's even a Malibu Barbie doll  (unfortunately not life size)

carry on,
ts-ga

Hi, Brandon

I can understand your confusion ... sometimes I get confused ...
usually when I've had a drop too many.

Anyhow, I checked with my daughters and told them of your confusion.

'Ye Gods!' they screamed, 'Just like Mayor Shinn! But if Brandon wants
to meet us then we shall have to see his credentials'.

So, Brandon, would you please take your credentials to Mayor Shinn
right away? By the way, the mayor has a gorgeous daughter called
Amaryllis ... Very talented, too. But the mayor keeps her on a very
tight leash. However, if coaxed, you could probably meet her at the
footbridge.

Ye Gods!

Good luck!

timespacette:  well as you have stated, in an odd way, i may add, that
i am not your typical iowa looking to take daddys little girl to the
back 40.  additionally, i am not looking for a quick hormonal fix, i
am looking for a reliable relationship, but i refuse to date anymore
girls who simply cannot carry an intelligent conversation with me; it
really gets old.  well actually there is a city in iowa called
muscatine that had the wealthiest people per capita back in 1997 or
something like that, but that has since changed.  i am a daytrader, if
you watch the markets at all, they have been tough on me to be honest,
but there is always money to be made, and i am still trading, which is
a good sign in itself.  haha not sure if i can afford malibu quite
yet.

anyway, thanks again for the comment.

probonopublico:  haha, well i feel honored for even hearing of that
option.  how would brandon forward his credentials onward?  brandon
would only want to do this in the most appropriate manner so the mayor
may consider entertaining his offer that he has now placed on the
table.  :)

thanks again, everyone, i appreciate your feedback.

-brandon

Hi, Brandon

To present your credentials, a great place to start is:

http://www.endresnet.com/mmlyrics.html

Please look up Marcellus Washburn at the Livery Stables, he knows the ropes.

Good Luck!

Bryan

probonopublico:  just went to the site.  not sure what exactly this is
for.  may i meet them or have you just been kidding all along?

- brandon

Hi, Brandon

Meeting my two lovely daughters is going to be rather difficult
because, like me, they live in the UK ...

Quite a journey to and from Iowa.

Shall we use my plane or yours?

All the Best

Bryan

probonopublico:  i do not have a plane, the jet engines are being
worked on, so we can use yours.

do they use any other forms of communication over the internet that i
can contact them with?

-brandon

Hi, Brandon

Yes! They're both active on the Internet BUT

Unfortunately, the GA rules prohibit any exchange of personal info
such as email addresses.

All the Best

Bryan

When my aunt was in her twenties, she also wanted to meet and date
wealthy guys.  How did she do it?  She got a job at a bank.  There is
a lot of foot traffic so you should have a lot of women to check out
and you will also have immediate access to their financial
information.  By the way, yes it did work for her.  For several years
she dated a guy who inherited a ton of money made from a local Pepsi
distributor.  Alas, she did not marry him, but she had a great time!

HOW TO ATTRACT A SUPPIERIOR MATE

1) you must offer them something suppierior, haveing money of your own
would help but it is not necessary. Who you are and what your
personality is are also major points.

2) make them laugh, talk ALOT! this cant be stressed enough, you have
to make them enjoy talking to you. Any girl will want to talk 10* more
than a guy so you have to talk to them as much as possible. And keep
the conversations interesting. A word of advice most women dont realy
find cars or sports that interesting.

3) never reveal anything unflattering about yourself until you are
vary comfortable with eachother, no matter how comfortable you are
with eachother dont reveal any bad habits such as drinking or gambling
(smoking is ok to reveal if she smokes)

4) dont push for sex even cyber sex until you know eachother a bit
fairly well. She will lose respect and interest if you go to soon.

5) if hunting via email/date programs send your most flattering photos. 

6) never break a promise to her.

You may not believe me but i was barely scraping together a liveing
and i managed to attract a young lawyer whoes family is multi
millionairs. Now we are married though i must admit i dont think money
has made me particularly happy i just dont have the same worries as
before.

Best of luck out there.

Remember it all has to do with what you can offer her, you might not
have money as she does so you have to offer her something else, make
her believe you will make her happy and her heart is yours.

Very funny stuff but I was thinking, I have two daughters who would
meet your criteria but they are too young for you just now.  And
besides, even if they were older, I do have plenty of armament and a
horrific attitude about boys near my girls.  You probably couldn't get
by me.  Also, marrying for anything but love is doomed to failure no
matter how resilient arranged marriages appear to be.  Still, where
could such women be found ?

Expensive Colleges and Country Clubs, true.  However, you might have
difficulty getting in there.  I would then wonder, what else do they
do ?  Foreign exchange programs ?  Ski trips during school vacations ?
 If you don't travel in their circles, you'd need to be where they
are.  I think the best way to meet someone with high standards is to
have high standards yourself (I'm going to assume for the sake of
argument that you are not simply a gold digger though there are plenty
of those in either gender).  Make yourself someone that any woman
would want to be with.  Improve yourself.  Make of yourself the best
you can in every area.  Become a person of quality and integrity, and
the women will find YOU.

wow!  i came across this by mistake.  was looking for the name of a
song with a chorus like she is the girl i am looking for and this
forum caught my eyes.  anyway, this is very interesting.  here is the
same thing i actually experienced.  one way to attract girls is to be
a playa.  girls are attract to playa. why?  because they always like
the guys who only looking for sex and disappeared later and then, when
the nice guy come along, they will give them dirty looks or doubt
like, why is this guy so nice to me.  lol.  maybe i talked too much. 
but this forum is cool.  i will come back to check it often.  thanks.

SORRY, I meant act like one.  Not to be one.  Here is another
interesting theory, ever experienced this?  We guys, always attracted
to the girls that do not like us.  Its not that we were so ugly or
whatever reason that we could not get a date.  Sometimes, there were
times where other girls who're  attracted to us and we ignored them. 
Remember, what goes around, comes around.  If you want to go out with
those you like, try go out with those you dont like.  Good things will
happen.  Trust me.  I have been single for a while, good things kinda
start happening when I take every girls' requests (not sex), just
chat, or hang out and stuff.  It is no harm to date around, as long as
you be up front that you are not looking for a relationship.  When the
right girl come along, just keep them.  ;)  Thanks for reading my 2
cents opinion.