I once saw a Berman & Berman show that featured a female guest who
talked about the questions one should answer before having sex with
someone, especially sex for the first time.  The guest was paired with
a teenaged girl who wanted to have sex.  The guest said she should
answer some questions first before having sex.  But instead of putting
the girl on the spot and having her answer them, the guest answered
them for herself as if she was one the one considering sex and not the
girl.

The questions were somewhat like: are you proud of/do you respect your
partner: the guest answered something like "oh yes, I used to choose
partners based on looks, later in life I chose on personality, and now
I choose based on character, and my partner is a wonderful person,
honest and treats others well."  Other questions focused on whether
one has discussed what types of sex one likes and how one likes to
masterbate with their partner first.  The guest answered in a happy
and enthusiastic way.

It was very impressive.  The teenaged girl seemed very shocked at the
depth of the questions and admitted she had some things to find out
about before she was ready to have sex.  Both her sister and her mom
said they would answer any questions she might have.

I'm seeking more information: what episode of the show was this, when
did it air, is there a transcript available (I looked on newshe.com
and couldn't find it) or can a video of the show be ordered?  What was
the name of the guest and does this guest have a website and/or book?