Can a VHS, DVD or privately recorded video copy of this year's Today Show
program "Today throws a wedding" finale, which aired on November 19th,
2004 be purchased or obtained?

Hi realjuggernaut,

While you're waiting for an answer, you can view clips of "Today
Throws A Wedding" here:

http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/5278792/

I am not sure about Today's procedures re tapes, but this is an email
address for the show:
Today@NBC.com

You might also want to contact your local NBC affiliate by phone.

Or check the Yellow Pages for media monitoring/broadcoast monitoring
companies. These companies tape most current affairs shows daily,
although buying a one-off tape can be costly.

http://directory.google.com/Top/News/Services/Media_Monitoring?tc=1/

These are only suggestions if you cannot find a copy easily. 

All the best,

* j *