There was a book that was kind of anti-transactional analysis. It was
a poke at the "I'm OK - You're OK" psychology, but I can't remember
what it was called. It was something like "I'm OK - You're Not.....or
I've got my s*** together". I would really like to know the titel and
author. My searching has failed, but I know it exists; no doubt out of
print though.

I believe the book you have in mind is ?I'm O.K., you're not so hot?
by Dolph Sharp.

I'm O.K., you're not so hot
By Dolph Sharp
Publisher: Price, Sloan Stern (1974) 
ISBN: 0843103361 

Customer Reviews:
?Sharp's book is a witty and refreshing alternative to Mental Health.
( . . ) TM is one way but here is another funny way or ways to allow
yourself to look at soul searching.?

There are 10 copies available at Amazon
http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/0843103361/i16jp-20/103-6836300-3879841?dev-t=D2E5ETG5CGB5DD%26camp=2025%26link_code=xm2/ref=nosim


There are four copies of ?I'm O. K. you're not so hot.? at  Abebooks.com
http://dogbert.abebooks.com/servlet/SearchResults?y=5&tn=I%27m+O.K.%2C+you%27re+not+so+hot&x=15

Alibris also has a few copies available.
http://www.alibris.com/search/search.cfm?qwork=3131884&wtit=%22I%27m%20OK%20%20You%27re%20Not&ptit=I%27m%20Ok%2C%20You%27re%20Not%20So%20Hot&pauth=Sharp%2C%20Dolph&pisbn=&pqty=8&pqtynew=0&pbest=2%2E95&matches=8&qsort=r

Search criteria:
I?m OK You?re not


I hope this helps! If by any chance I have misidentified the book
please let me know and I will resume my search.

Best regards,
Bobbie7