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Subject:
Feces smearing in my 28 month old
Category: Health > Children Asked by: nan1944-ga List Price: $2.50 |
Posted:
27 Jan 2006 16:40 PST
Expires: 26 Feb 2006 16:40 PST Question ID: 438483 |
I have a 28 month old daughter who has taken to smearing her feces. She will be fully clothed and in her diaper, have a BM, and then reach in and smear her feces. The first time she did it, she was in her bed; now it has happened many places in the house, about 12 times now in the past 3 months. She has a baby brother 7 months old. I am at home with my 2 children fulltime right now, so she is unattended very infrequently. She has started toilet training which has proceed to this point: she sits on the potty and occasionally goes pee-pee. What is the best way to handle this recent occurrence...the main principle? What is at the root of it? Thank you. |
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Subject:
Re: Feces smearing in my 28 month old
From: violet369-ga on 01 Feb 2006 08:16 PST |
In response to your question, may I refer you to two published Internet Q & A articles dealing with the same subject. Today?s Parent Playing With Feces: By Janet Morrison http://www.todaysparent.com/toddler/askus/article.jsp?content=20030903_100943_4180&page=1 and/or Dr. Spock Ask Dr. Needleman: Smearing Feces at 21 Months http://www.drspock.com/faq/0,1511,8333,00.html I like the suggestion in one of the articles of catching a child doing wanted behavior and rewarding that behavior with a hug or "Good job!" instead of only giving attention to the negative or unwanted behavior. Good luck and I hope this helps you in solving the problem. |
Subject:
Re: Feces smearing in my 28 month old
From: loleen-ga on 14 Feb 2006 15:33 PST |
My daughter did the same thing, at the same age. I tried everything- even bribery. However, the only thing that worked was the following: Reverse Psychology! I would say, "Now don't you go poo poo in the toilet. Don't you do it!" and she would reply "I am going to do it! I'm going to do it!" and actually did. I would use a fun, joking tone and she responded by going number two where she should. The days of cleaning walls, toys, carpets, were over and she has been completely trained ever since the first day of my challenges. I think it had something to do with the fact that she felt empowered and rebellious! It might sound foolish, but it worked for me! |
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