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Subject: Unopened valetines
Category: Relationships and Society
Asked by: brab500-ga
List Price: $2.00
Posted: 14 Feb 2006 18:27 PST
Expires: 16 Mar 2006 18:27 PST
Question ID: 445905
What should I do with my husband's valentine gift and card that he would not open?
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Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: daniel2d-ga on 14 Feb 2006 19:18 PST
 
Any man who would not open a gift from his wife on valentine's day has a problem.
Any wife who has to ask what to do with the gift and card also has a problem.
Re-examine your relationship with him and ask yourself, "Would I be
better off with him or without him?"   Return the gift and use it as a
down payment for a get-a-way fund.
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: ingroid-ga on 14 Feb 2006 21:05 PST
 
Well... it depends on why he would not open them...
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: daniel2d-ga on 15 Feb 2006 00:12 PST
 
It would have to have a VERY good reason.  If he was capable of
opening it he should have.  It was VERY inconsiderate, bordering on
cruel, not to have graciously accepted and opened the card and gift.
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: myoarin-ga on 15 Feb 2006 03:39 PST
 
Put them out of sight and wait and see what happens.  If he just
forgot Valentine's Day, maybe he felt that it was inappropriate to
open a gift when he had none for you.  Hopefully, he will make up for
that today, although I must agree with Daniel that he should have
handled the matter more tactfully.
If he doesn't ...?  I am sorry.
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: clint34-ga on 15 Feb 2006 04:14 PST
 
Use it as a weapon to bean him in the head with when he walks in the
door, followed by water balloons and shaving cream fight.

This could lead to a lot of fun!
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: rabaga-ga on 15 Feb 2006 05:25 PST
 
Open them yourself to find out who sent them.
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: frde-ga on 15 Feb 2006 05:42 PST
 
Does he know it is from you ?
- If so, does he disapprove of artificial 'occasions' ?

There is also a possibility that GF MkII is on the scene, and he is
narked that she is trying to precipitate things.

Probably he hates organized schmaltz.

Possibly he feels guilty that he had not done the same for you ?

Personally I detest commercial crud ... most likely he feels the same way.
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: jamie2462-ga on 22 Feb 2006 06:00 PST
 
Sorry hun,
I'm with everyone else here. If he would not open a valentine's day
gift from his wife, I really don't care to hear the excuse. Why can he
not act like every other guy say "oh thanks honey" and get it out of
the way. At least that way he would have appeared somewhat gracious.
If he opens it now, it is almost an insult, actually yes it would be
because valentine's is only one day a year and if he cannot act
accordingly on this one day. Then BAH Hum bug to him too. See if he
gets his tools or whatever it is he is thinking of for christmas. 
Hahaha NO.
Good luck, and garbage the gift. Or return it and like daniel said,
get yourself something nice. :)
-Jamie-
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: ka42-ga on 23 Feb 2006 14:11 PST
 
Maybe you should give it to him!
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: jurassic-ga on 23 Feb 2006 17:32 PST
 
Re-address it to his best mate.
Subject: Re: Unopened valetines
From: princessconn-ga on 01 Mar 2006 19:34 PST
 
That is so0o0o0o0o0 not cool!
If he doesnt want ur gift then y should u want him?????
Did he get u anything?

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