Please send me any information or articals you can find on The Affects
of having children are on a marriage...it is for a term paper due
now.. and I am at a lack for being able to find enough information to
write one!
Thank you very much for your time!
Sincerely, 
Sue Jones

The best way to answer this question would be to say go and get
married and have some kids.  Obviously I wouldn't recommend anyone
rush into it.  And I am sure you don't have enough time to do all that
since you paper will probably be due before then.
The best thing to do is remember who you married, why you married
them, and what they mean to you.  When you start having kids you tend
to forget about the one person that you started all this with.  Having
Kids can be tough on a marriage because you tend to forget to do the
things that keeps the love alive.  I would never give my kids up for
anything, it is a wonderful blessing to me.  I would think that one of
the keys to making it successfull is to work together and keep a
healthy balance between your spouse and your kids.  If you can do that
than one of the greatest affects having kids on you will be a closer
relationship with your spouse.  Having Kids will create  a special
bond between you and your spouse that you can not get any other way. 
As I said I love my kids and wouldn't give them up for anything.  It's
a lot of work but well worth it.