Three per car, I believe.
Institute another amnesty program for what?
You're not in penury now are you? Pay those tickets. You have money
to post questions online like this.
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Once again, you're not alone on the WIFEQUEST project. Before you
delude yourself to believe that marriage is a paradise where you can
get unlimited comforts in many ways, you should realise that in a
marriage all your personality warts comes out. It takes work to
maintain one.
Divorce is bad for EVERY single member of the family involved.
Divorce SUCKS and it suck for a long time. Trust me, I've seen it.
Over ten years it still is what it is.
Before you choose someone, you need to know who you are. What are
your most valued principles? There are goals that are easily achieved
without a family that should get done now. Like if you want to serve
in the Peace-Corp or spend time building a plane and fly it. Time
consuming stuff like that.
What is important in life? Both your values should match. That's
basic. The two of you should really know each other... look beyond
the surface. It takes time to find out what her values are as well as
your own values.
How much are you going to give yourselve to your significant other?
Another truth is that people takes time. I can be efficient with
other things, but I just cut someone off who needs me. Relationships
are time consuming. Your wife might give you a break for calling her
six times a day when your away 18 hours a day. People takes time and
they deserve time.
Are you going to divide yourself by having multiple significant
others? How will that affect the relationship? The answers to these
are obviously value based. Again, know what you are, know what you
are not. The force is in you for whatever kind of man you wanna be.
I go to church for good tips on dating, marriage, etc. And I meet a
lot of nice people and we talk about things like this for free. Free
advise with real peeps. No one is going to make you give ten percent
of your paycheck to them. In fact, it is biblically advised against
gifts that don't come from the heart.
Okay, enough posts. Haha!
Happy post-Singleness Awareness Day! |
