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Q: Building friendships between straight males & gay females ( No Answer,   3 Comments )
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Subject: Building friendships between straight males & gay females
Category: Relationships and Society > Gay, Lesbian, and Bisexual
Asked by: bigfeelings-ga
List Price: $25.00
Posted: 16 Feb 2005 23:19 PST
Expires: 18 Mar 2005 23:19 PST
Question ID: 475867
I am married and looking for a non-sexual relationship with a
female--a soul mate kind of thing.  I was thinking that the safest
approach for this would be to hook up with a woman that is gay, but
doesn't find men offensive.
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Subject: Re: Building friendships between straight males & gay females
From: politicalguru-ga on 17 Feb 2005 02:27 PST
 
The most simple way would be not to think of her as a gay person. My
husband is straight (he'd better be ;-) and one of our best friends is
gay. This is not why we're her friends and this is not why she's ours:
if you look for friendship in general, you'll meet all kinds of
people.

Maybe, an idea for *real* friendship is to engage in a voluntary
activity, where many women are involved: women's shelters, helplines,
feminist organisations.
Subject: Re: Building friendships between straight males & gay females
From: steph53-ga on 17 Feb 2005 11:40 PST
 
If you are married, do you mean to imply that your wife isn't your soulmate??
Subject: Re: Building friendships between straight males & gay females
From: arspring99-ga on 30 Mar 2005 19:41 PST
 
I don't think there is anything wrong with having friends outside of
marriage, but I'm concerned by your questions as for looking for a
soulmate. It seems as if something quite large is missing from your
marriage itself to be looking for such a deep connection from someone
else other than who you're married to. Have you though of why this may
be?

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