How to cope and understand my fiances severe mental illness? |
Request for Question Clarification by
tutuzdad-ga
on
20 Feb 2005 15:03 PST
Perhaps if you told us what mental illness your fiance suffers from, I
might be able to point you to a support group where you can talk to
professionals and fellow sufferers who can offer some information and
coping advice. Would this solution be satisfactory as an answer?
Regards;
tutuzdad-ga
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Request for Question Clarification by
librariankt-ga
on
22 Feb 2005 09:39 PST
Hi there,
Are these the types of sites in which you are interested?
Maintaining Your Own Health
For Family Members Caring for Relatives with a Mental Disorder
http://www.world-schizophrenia.org/publications/07-health.html
Mental Illness in the Family
Recognizing the Warning Signs & How to Cope
http://www.nmha.org/infoctr/factsheets/11.cfm
Please let me know so I can help you further. There are lots of
online resources for coping with mental illness in a general way, as
well as ones that deal with specific illnesses.
Librariankt
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Clarification of Question by
gothikaladyluck13-ga
on
22 Feb 2005 19:49 PST
well im the fiance asking for my future husband so he can get a better
grip of this. I'm 24 years old been emotionally abused severly and
sometimes physically. My son had to witness alot the horrible acts or
harsh words my x-husband would say. ever since the seperation and now
three years later a final divorce i feel to overwhelmed that i would
rather stay in bed or use to take my mind away. my x-husband currently
has my children and ive been with this new guy for a while and I love
him so much but i hate who ive become. i feel weak, ugly, vulnerable,
gullible, manipulation to tantrums like a child. i know this wrong but
i do it why? a year ago a psychiatrists diagnosed me with bipolar and
borderline personality disorder even maybe narrissism. I like
attention but not too much and i like too be friendly and helpful but
subqoeunsely to what others see and my fiance is flirtation but
honestly i really hate sex now. its hard for me to be sexual with my
fiance and hurts me to know hes hurting and i just sometimes cant
bring myself to having sex. It really sucks. please i need help!!!!!!!
we are good for eachother but than again we argue alot because he is
too stubborn to learn my conditions. i feel as if im gonna have a big
nervous breakdown or whatever. please help
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Clarification of Question by
gothikaladyluck13-ga
on
15 Mar 2005 00:36 PST
hi i=once again to clarify my questions it is i the female fiance
christina. im the one with mental illness, bipolar, borderline
personality disorder, anxiety, guilt. im really screwed in the head i
meen i got married at 20 years of age but i had given birth to my son
when i was 19. his father i have no clue where hes at but the man i
married knew that it wasnt his but ha loved him the same. when i got
tired of being a doormat i decided i was going to hang out some
co-workers and not come right away. well that world war three. i love
my now x-husband very much but just becauase in his culture over in
mexico they allow woman to tramped on and treated like a slave doesnt
meen i want to. anyway my whole life is a big rollercoaster aNd my
fiance who is themale doesnt understand my sudden outburst my violent
rages. please help
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