..When it is time to give it all up?

In the last 3 years I have gone thru a gamut of emotions about who or what I am..

When does the bell finally "ring" ???

Hi Steph...

When is it time to give all 'what' up? Your statement:

"In the last 3 years I have gone thru a gamut of emotions
 about who or what I am.."

...would seem to imply that you're ready to give up your
sense of who you know yourself to be. Emotions are based
on judgments which stem from beliefs, so the emotions
you're experiencing with respect to who or what you are 
are based on your beliefs about who or what you experience
yourself to be versus who or what you think you should be.

The important thing to understand is that both who or what
you experience yourself to be, and who or what you think
you should be, are based on beliefs. Beliefs are at the 
root of how you experience and judge yourself, as they are
at the root of how you think you 'should' be.

And, as I've mentioned in other answers to your questions,
and to those of others, I don't know of any tool for 
examining and changing beliefs which surpasses AvatarŪ.

I'd suggest you explore those answers in which I've discussed
the AvatarŪ course and tools it provides, many of which are
online and free:
http://answers.google.com/answers/search?q=%22Answered+By%3A++sublime1-ga%22+avatar&qtype=all&btnG=Google+Search

There are now also 7 mini-courses available online at no cost,
which should take you a long way in a productive exploration:
http://www.avatarepc.com/html/mini-eng.html

The bell rings when you strike it...

sublime1-ga

Thanks...Sublime1...

I didn't really think you would answer my question..

BUT as you have, please post as an official answer .. so you cvan be paid ;)

Oops... I ca'nt even spell...