Please provide the URL of the blog.  There are numerous clues in the
article to search for.

http://www.nytimes.com/2005/07/17/fashion/sundaystyles/17LOVE.html

Hello afriend ,

Here is the link to the blog that is mentioned in the New York Times article.
http://subvic.blogspot.com/

Excerpt:

?If you have come to this little blog today looking for purient
details of a "nanny gone wild" and another "nanny diary" detailing the
sordid life of a family she works for, I am very sorry to disappoint
you. Contrary to an essay published in the Style section of the
NYTIMES, I am not a pill popping alcoholic who has promiscuous sex and
cares nothing for the kids she takes care of. Nope. If you look
carefully through my archives, instead you will find a young woman in
her midtwenties who decided to work as a nanny for a year while she
prepared to enter the next phase of her professional life; namely the
life of an academic pursuing a PhD in English Literature specifically
focusing on the Late Victorian novel. But for those of you who dont
want to come through the archives, I will offer a refutation of the
salacious, malicious, and really quite silly essay written by Ms.
Olen.?


The New York Times article mentions that the Nanny posted the Sharon
Olds poem "Life With Sick Kids" on her blog.

Here?s the link to this entry
http://subvic.blogspot.com/2004/12/i-grew-up-to-be-gobbler.html

Here?s the link to the blog entry about the Gilmore Girls
http://subvic.blogspot.com/2004/11/no-gilmore-girls.html


Search terms used: 

"I wanted to say, smack him, bite her"
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I hope this helps!

Best Regards,
Bobbie7

Thanks.