How do I get s restraining order/or other method against my minior
daughter's minor boyfriend who alreday has made her pregnent and had
an abortion

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Request for Question Clarification by justaskscott-ga on 28 Aug 2005 23:25 PDT

In what state do you, your daughter, and your daughter's boyfriend reside?

Is your daughter close to turning 18 years old (after which, I
presume, she would not be a minor)?

Are there any other facts that might help us to understand the
situation (without revealing any personal information, of course)?

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Clarification of Question by sadparent-ga on 29 Aug 2005 11:03 PDT

They both reside in California.

They are both 15 turning 16.

He is very controlling/infatuated and text messgaes/ calls her all the time.

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Request for Question Clarification by tutuzdad-ga on 29 Aug 2005 11:38 PDT

Please refer to the answer here:
http://answers.google.com/answers/threadview?id=554327

tutuzdad-ga

theres nothihg wrong about text messaging and calling... was it her
choice to get an abortion or his? I dont get what your real dilemma is
here.

also, what do u mean by controlling??

You need legal advice.  If you qualify, free or reduced fee legal
advice may be available by contacting your local bar association.  You
need to involve his parents and perhaps the department of social
services.  Your daughter needs counseling so she can come to the
realization that her conduct is detrimental to her well being, her
health and is self-destructive.  Have you talked to a counselor at her
school? They may be able to point you in the right direction.