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Subject:
Suitable Conversational Responses Needed
Category: Relationships and Society > Cultures Asked by: mycroftholmes-ga List Price: $2.25 |
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02 Sep 2005 09:30 PDT
Expires: 02 Oct 2005 09:30 PDT Question ID: 563534 |
I'm new to this country and need appropriate social responses for two questions: "How's tricks?" and "What's the haps?" Is "good" an appropriate answer in both cases? Neither? Are more detailed responses invited, or required? Are there any INappropriate replies? | |
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Re: Suitable Conversational Responses Needed
From: research_help-ga on 02 Sep 2005 10:26 PDT |
What country are you asking about? I have never heard anyone use either of the expressions you are asking about in the US. |
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Re: Suitable Conversational Responses Needed
From: yellowlion-ga on 02 Sep 2005 11:12 PDT |
'How's tricks?' is British. I suspect it is long past its sell-by date, but since I haven't lived in my own country for 35 years I'm not too well up in these things. Never heard the second expression: it presumably also hails from my native land... |
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Re: Suitable Conversational Responses Needed
From: jh963-ga on 02 Sep 2005 13:58 PDT |
The typical answer to "How's tricks?" is "She's fine." :-) "What's the haps?" Is vernacular for "What's happening?" but is just a generic greeting. (It's not really a question.) Saying another greeting in response is appropriate. Like: Hey, Dude. How's it hanging? What's up? How's it going? Hi. J. |
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Re: Suitable Conversational Responses Needed
From: purplecloud-ga on 03 Sep 2005 07:25 PDT |
Hi mycroftholmes, You mentioned that you are new to this country. This raises the possibility that English is not your first language. If so, an important thing you need to know is these two questions are not formal; they are very informal, bordering perhaps on the vulgar. If English is not your first language, I would advise you to avoid using these two questions to start a conversatio(as well as the "How's it hanging" and "Hey, Dude" suggested by Jh963 - although I agree with the first part of his/her answer). Mastering the art of speaking informally (using very informal language, including using 'four letter words') is very difficult for non-native speakers to do correctly. You might use it inappropriately (with the wife of your boss), and not know you have created a major 'faux pas'. Although there are few textbooks or resource books that can teach you how to master informal English, you might try "Dangerous English" by Elizabeth Claire http://www.elizabethclaire.com/books/de2000.html I'd recommend asking a native speaker of English to work through the book with you. I'd also recommend that you focus on recognizing the informality of the language, but not try to use it yourself. Most non-native speakers just don't get the right intonation, and the end result is often laughable. I'd say that the two questions you mentioned are just used as conversational openers among friendly colleagues. Jh963's advice on responding to it is fine or to "How's tricks" you could reply "Fine" or "Not bad" and then say "And you?". This will toss the conversational 'ball' back to the person who asked you the question. Often non-native speakers of English drop the conversational ball, which makes it more difficult than necessary to have a conversation. They forget that an English conversation has a flow, a rhythmn which requires each person in the conversation to push the conversation along. Just saying "Fine" doesn't push the conversation along. Good luck! AM Also know that in American English (and I would assume in British English, Canadian English, Australian English and New Zealand English), the conversational topic is open to negotiation: you are not required to talk about a topic you don't want to talk about. Just change the topic, and see if the other person wants to talk about it. For example, speaker A: "What's the hap?" speaker B: "Not much. And you?" speaker A: "Our #@$ boss is putting too much pressure on me" speaker B: "Sorry to hear that. (pause) Say, did you catch the ballgame on Friday?" The use of the pause and 'Say' are signals to speaker A that you want to change the conversational topic. |
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Re: Suitable Conversational Responses Needed
From: myoarin-ga on 03 Sep 2005 08:39 PDT |
Excellent comment and recommondations, Purplecloud. Yes, indeed, it is better for a non-native speaker to avoid slang. Everyone will accept it if one seems a little formal, but few will tell one that something one just said was inappropriate, politely letting it pass, maybe to be repeated in more sensitive company. But Mycroft - Sherlock's more astute brother - has already surmised that, as his question here confirms. :) |
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Re: Suitable Conversational Responses Needed
From: archae0pteryx-ga on 06 Sep 2005 22:36 PDT |
As a native speaker of American English, I recognize "How's tricks?" but never hear anyone say it. From what little I know of street slang, I can figure out "What's the haps?" but, again, I never hear it used. If I were addressed with one of these remarks, I would consider either a formal or an informal response appropriate. Formal: "I beg your pardon?" Informal: "Hmmm?" Archae0pteryx |
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