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Subject:
80th birthday party
Category: Arts and Entertainment > Books and Literature Asked by: jorn8063-ga List Price: $10.00 |
Posted:
08 Sep 2005 14:09 PDT
Expires: 08 Oct 2005 14:09 PDT Question ID: 565795 |
We are having an 80th birthday party for my mother (2 sisters are hosting/inviting). My aunt has given a substantial amount of money (non solicited) toward the party. How does one recognize her generous efforts? Does she need to be included with us as hosting the party or is an aknowledgement appropriate. Thank You |
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Re: 80th birthday party
From: myoarin-ga on 08 Sep 2005 20:03 PDT |
At first, I thought the two sisters were those of your mother, but I guess they are her two daughters (you and your sister). So the aunt is your mother's sister, and she cannot join you? If so, I would suggest that you ask her to write a letter appropriate to be read by one of you to your mother and the guests at the party (in addition to whatever personal greetings she may address directly to your mother). Then you can take this as the opportunity to express your appreciation for her generous support and your disappointment that she cannot be there for the occasion. Even without the letter from your aunt, you could do this. She would probably appreciate a card with greetings and thanks signed at the party by everyone there who knows her. This would not only be a nice gesture but would also confirm that her participation was recognized. I hope it is a grand occasion. |
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Re: 80th birthday party
From: jorn8063-ga on 09 Sep 2005 10:45 PDT |
I need to clarify my question. The 2 sisters are daughters of the birthday party honoree. The aunt is a sister-in-law to the honoree and is invited and will be there. My question comes to the point of wording in the invitation that will be mailed to the invitees, does the sister-in-law need to be recognized as giving the party (along with the 2 daughters) or can she be mentioned at the bottom of the invitation with a special thank you. Please remember her contribution was not solicited by the 2 daughters giving the party. Thank you |
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Re: 80th birthday party
From: rexrae-ga on 09 Sep 2005 16:18 PDT |
The special thank you is what i would do.But instead of specially thanking her i will leave a section at the bottom such as "Warmhearted birthday wishes" with all the family member names but with this aunts name on top.Or you could put a special unique place that will be seen first as the invitation is opened with "Best wishes" from this aunt. |
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Re: 80th birthday party
From: myoarin-ga on 09 Sep 2005 17:24 PDT |
Yes, thanks for the clarification. It would seem only polite to assume that the aunt does want to included as one of the hosts and give her the choice of saying that she prefers not to be mentioned on the invitation. You could show her the text for the invitations, maybe with an alternate text, but both including her name with those of the sisters, perhaps in the form: "Mrs Xxx Yyy, Mary Aaa and Betty Bbb" or "Our Aunt Xxx joins us in inviting...", or "Mary and Betty together with our/their Aunt Xxx" or "... together with their aunt, Mrs. Xxx Yyy" If the aunt does not want to be on the invitation, let her say so. Obviously, my suggestion of a letter from her is not appropriate, but you could clarify with her whether she wanted to say a few words at the occasion, or whether she would prefer that one (or both) of the sisters mentioned her in her words of welcome to the guests. And if she didn't want that either, I would still mention her. I hope this helps - maybe to suggest to you something else. |
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