My Father died 4 years ago.  I have never been close to my family.  My
mother also passed away.  When my father was sick no one ever told me
what was going on with him.  The other 3 siblings called each other 3
or 4 times a day.  I would get an email once every 2 weeks with
updates.  He was in ICU for 11 weeks snd never left the hospital
alive.  How do I get medical records for him without going through the
family.  It would get really ugly.