Dear jimmycparks-ga;
Since you are agreeable to my research as an answer I am merely going
through the formability of reposting the information here in an effort
to officially close your question:
As one who frequents court myself I can attest to the fact that
academic titles are rarely viewed negatively whereas honorary titles
sometimes have a negative effect or, in some case perhaps, may even be
intimidating. I?d also like to add that there is an element of society
that not only thinks the term Esquire is pompous and self-important
but also argue that the term is actually unconstitutional. Their
argument is based on the notion that the US Constitution forbids
aristocratic titles. The Articles of Confederation state that: "nor
shall the United States in Congress assembled, or any of them, grant
any title of nobility.? This of course is extreme but you can imagine
how this might be interpreted by at least a small portion of the
public. Based on these comparisons alone it would seem that the
academic title is probably the safest (or at least the most modest)
choice.
This attorney offers important etiquette advice about business cards specifically:
"...one does not use it of oneself (that is, one should not use it on
one's own business cards or stationery)--it should be used only in
address to other people..."
ESQUIRE
http://www.randomhouse.com/wotd/index.pperl?date=19980609
You will also note that on the same page where you retrieved the quote
you posted, others also said:
?If Esq is "the Firm custom," you go with The Firm Custom. But as a
solo, I'd never opt for "Esq." In fact, I see increasingly sarcastic
use of "Esq" by the public and media -- as well as Esq-averse
attitudes by lawyers.?
This lawyer, who was appalled by the address on a card she received
that included the title ?Esq. complained:
?I have never used "Esq." professionally as to me it is manly and
archaic, and have never used it socially, on invitations, stationary,
checks or membership lists. Now an entire herd of my peers who I have
never met will think I'm a pompous idiot.?
When you asked about what is most accepted and commonplace it suggests
that you are seeking opinion rather that indisputable fact. In my
circle the term ?Esquire? is viewed as antiquated, chauvinistic and
decidedly pretentious, even on a shingle.
I hope you find that my answer exceeds your expectations. If you have
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prior to rating the answer. Otherwise I welcome your rating and your
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near future. Thank you for bringing your question to us.
Best regards;
Tutuzdad-ga ? Google Answers Researcher
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