60 ish male (Burlington County, Southern New Jersey) needs
pre-separation legal advice and later mediation support.  Possible for
someone to provide referral to several proficient lawyers specializing
in Divorce (both for my counsel and for mediation)
that is backed up by someone's actual human experience rather than
just a list from Burlington County mediator's list?
Also, suggestions welcome as to how to screen for best of
several consulting lawyers? (hope one that will cooperate with
mediators [who also may be lawyers])  e.g. email list of questions to
several and compare qualityand promptness of answers?
many thanks
Jim