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Subject:
Asking for an apology from management
Category: Business and Money > Employment Asked by: bariau-ga List Price: $20.00 |
Posted:
08 Jun 2006 12:31 PDT
Expires: 08 Jun 2006 14:10 PDT Question ID: 736471 |
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Re: Asking for an apology from management
From: tutuzdad-ga on 08 Jun 2006 12:55 PDT |
It sounds to me like you've already gotten your apology: >>>...this does seem to be a genuine mistake, certainly the managers have been very verbally apologetic over the matter...<<< What more do you require from them? I think maybe you should consider the matter closed now and call it a day. |
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Re: Asking for an apology from management
From: pinkfreud-ga on 08 Jun 2006 12:59 PDT |
It seems to me that pushing for further apologies is likely to do you far more harm than good. The only thing you stand to gain is personal satisfaction, but you stand to lose the goodwill of your employer, which is a very valuable thing indeed. |
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Re: Asking for an apology from management
From: myoarin-ga on 08 Jun 2006 13:19 PDT |
I agree, and also think that if you reread your question, you may recognize that you have expressed this yourself, perhaps using your question to "get it off your chest", which is a good idea, rather like writing a vicious letter and then tearing it up the next morning. Good luck. |
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Re: Asking for an apology from management
From: bariau-ga on 08 Jun 2006 13:20 PDT |
I feel I should point out here that this, to me, is a serious matter and has affected my self esteem. I feel that I have been made to look foolish in front of my peers (as I have been telling them that I am a Team Leader when I am not), no manager has explained this sudden change in job to my peers, I have had to. The respect I have built up has been shattered. It wouldn't surprise me if people thought I had lied or twisted things to my own end, when I feel I behaved with the utmost integrity. The pay difference between the two jobs is also significant. I left my job where I had respect, friends and enormous support from my manager for this "promotion" which has not happened. I feel that two verbal apologies, one from my Team Manager (who had nothing to do with my application at all) and one from the man who interviewed me is not enough to rectify the wrong that I have sustained. Thank you for your comments, I do appreciate what you are saying but all I want to ask them to do is write an official letter saying that none of this was my doing, partially for my own peace of mind, partially because I feel I deserve more than an "I'm sorry this happened" from my immediate manager and partially because I want proof in case it causes problems in the future. |
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Re: Asking for an apology from management
From: philnj-ga on 08 Jun 2006 13:25 PDT |
I agree with the above comments, but would like to add from my own experience of managing someone who did not got get what they expected. Put the past behind you. Being bitter or resentfull will damage your image in the eyes of your manager and will ultimately do more harm than good. But, use the opportunity to formally lay out a plan for you to achieve your goals. Tell you manager (and your manager's manager) that you would like to be considered for a team lead position. Hopefully, you have a formal system of recording and tracking career goals. If not, ask your manager to write down the qualities and capabilities that you need to display to earn the promotion to team lead. You also need to act the part of the team lead. It is tricky to be something that you are not, but always be on the lookout for ways to help your current team lead. If your lead drops the ball, you should pick it up without asking. Be helpful without being pushy. At the next review period or when the need for a new team lead arises, sit down with the manager who will make the decision and show him/her the written qualities and capabilities of a team lead, and show him/her how you have demonstrated these qualities and capabilities. There is no guarantee, and I have not even mentioned office politics, but a good manager would be stupid to overlook someone who has made such a good case for promotion. |
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