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Subject: Getting with a girl
Category: Relationships and Society > Romance
Asked by: rx55-ga
List Price: $2.00
Posted: 22 Jun 2006 22:32 PDT
Expires: 22 Jul 2006 22:32 PDT
Question ID: 740399
What is the best was to get a girl to have sex with you?
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Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: cynthia-ga on 22 Jun 2006 22:56 PDT
It's funny how this works, but when you quit thinking about getting
laid, and concentrate on a girl's personality, her likes and dislikes,
her favorite activities, and be a gentleman with an open wallet on
outings... well, try it, you'll see. The hardest part is NOT TRYING
and not THINKING about sex while you're with her.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: probonopublico-ga on 22 Jun 2006 23:24 PDT
Play hard to get.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: myoarin-ga on 23 Jun 2006 01:48 PDT
Cynthia is probably right, but there is another approach  - if you are
not particular about which girl.
Just ask them.  The guy who recommended this approach admitted that
you get a lot of equally rude refusals, but not always.  But, of
course, it should be added that he was singing (maybe also swinging,
but actually *singing*) lifeguard in LA at the time, 45 years ago.
Go with Cynthia's recommendation if you are it is a particular girl
you are interested in.  And Probono is right, too, within reason. 
Don't force it, wait till the next date after the one that that was
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: seychellois-ga on 23 Jun 2006 05:48 PDT
it is not easy... it happened to once in the Seychelles...
there was a club called seybay i think where you can find girls and real love
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: anaenaustria-ga on 23 Jun 2006 06:07 PDT
....try not to appear as desperate (..even if you are..)...and brush
your teeth......;);)!
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: samdaman-ga on 23 Jun 2006 07:20 PDT
Get her really drunk on a night with a full moon...girls are always
hornier during full moons.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: markvmd-ga on 23 Jun 2006 08:18 PDT
Don't any of you live in cities with prostitutes?
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: kemlo-ga on 23 Jun 2006 10:43 PDT
Clean prostitutes are too expensive 
if you are desperate there is allways the inflatable
works for me every time
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: aussietpp-ga on 24 Jun 2006 06:49 PDT
Marry Her.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: myoarin-ga on 24 Jun 2006 11:26 PDT
It's not very sporting, but a prostitute may be cheaper than Cynthia's method.
(Don't ask her the standard question:  "What is a nice girl like you ....")
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: askandyouwillgetit-ga on 25 Jun 2006 04:25 PDT
u have to analyze her mind and follow these steps because, 

Women want a man who: 

Can make them think. 
Can make them feel excitement, sexy, and turned on rather than bored . 
Can prioritise his life and doesn't let anyone walk over him . 
Is not afraid to voice his opinion . 
Keeps them on their toes through challenge . 
Holds and maintains an element of mystery . 
Is spontaneous. 
Gives them space and freedom, and keeps his own space. 
Tough call, but whenever did I say it was going to be easy? I'm still
learning myself.

i hope this will lead you to get closer to the woman u like and get
personal as well.

good luck mate
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: probonopublico-ga on 25 Jun 2006 04:56 PDT
Pheromones are supposed to work wonders ...

See (The Scent of Eros)

Please get some and report back!
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: aussietpp-ga on 25 Jun 2006 09:27 PDT
Okay I'll get serious. (Seems the idea of marriage got ignored)
A sure fire way to get a girl to have sex with you is to become the
lead singer of a rock/pop band. Playing cover versions in pubs should
be enough.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: daniel2d-ga on 25 Jun 2006 20:09 PDT
You asked for the BEST
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: daniel2d-ga on 25 Jun 2006 20:11 PDT
You asked for the BEST way - and here it is -  find a girl who loves
you and then marry her.

All the other ways debase the women, are sleazy - which says a lot
about you asking the question.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: irlandes-ga on 01 Jul 2006 15:38 PDT
Daniel, it also debases the men.

Questioner, maybe you should read past google-answers questions by
both men and women who have messed up their lives with this sort of
promiscuous view of sex.

I have watched over the last four decades as our man-hating society
has methodically taught young men such as yourselves, that you are
nothing but a sexual opportunist and a sperm donor, who is best put in
a position of working to send money to one or more of the women you
have impregnated, and letting them raise your kids, because after all
everyone well knows kids are better off with no dad. (A Pack of Lies).

Notice the implication that YOU cannot be debased by promiscuous sex. 
You can. I counseled divorced and unwed fathers by the hundreds in the
mid-80's till the early 90's, and men who think they should "take
whatever they can get" end up near suicide from misery. (So much so
that talking about suicide was part of every first counseling contact
with such men, they would not mention it, but when I did, they
admitted they thought about it a lot.)

Don't buy into it. It will essentially destroy your life, then you
will wonder who is responsible. YOU ARE!!!!

For your own benefit, avoid premarital sex, as contrary as that is to
what you learned in public schools and see on television.  Trust me on
this, there are plenty of good women out there, who if you show some
patience, you can find them. But, they will almost not certainly not
be the most gorgeous of "babes" as you desire. ("Gorgeous" only lasts
about two weeks into a marriage. If you find one, a chubby woman who
loves you and tries to please you and thus motivates you to be a
better man, is a much better wife-lover than a nasty tempered, selfish

The best way to enter a stable marriage is to stop being sexually
desperate, establish a life style designed for a long-term bachelor
life with goals and useful activities for happiness. Once you have
MATES. No fuss; no sweat; no special seduction techniques; just get
your life and career right, and one day there she will be.

If you keep on panting and snorting like a bull elk in rut, you will
join the other sperm donors who pay support for kids they don't get to
see or know.

I know with your present attitude EXACTLY what you are going to do.
Just never say no one warned you.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: slybri-ga on 16 Jul 2006 18:18 PDT
This really depends a lot on what your true motives are but I believe
that if you treat a woman/girl like a person and not a piece then it
will happen. The female should feel important, respected, listened to,
and believe she is special in your life. Of course these things are
not things you just simply act to get sex. She'll know it's genuine
when you make her feel these things from the heart.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: akaclyde-ga on 26 Jul 2006 13:08 PDT
Ok guys pay attention. I could write a whole book on this topic, there
are extremely too many guys walking around with the wrong attitude.
You are a man, so act like a man ? be a man ? don?t be a girly-man.
Guys, you do not have to be debonair and sophisticated, you do not
need any ?moves,? all you need is attitude - the right attitude, not
the wrong attitude. There are ladies for all **men**, notice I
emphasize men. Girls like: strong, weak, thin, husky ? not fat, tall,
short ? well not too short, rugged, scrawny, young, old, you don?t
need perfect hair, perfect teeth, perfect skin, or a perfect body. In
other words, unless you are a big fat disgusting slob with wind chimes
dangling in your mouth disguised as teeth, there are girls out there
for you.
Too many guys are walking around looking like they slept in a pile of
dirty laundry. Groom yourself every day ? shower, shave, trim your
nose hairs and eyebrows, squeeze out those blackheads from your face,
clip your nails and keep your hair clean and neat. When you are in a
position to meet ladies ? which is just about always ? dress nice, and
smell nice. Yeah, that?s right, smell nice, put on some cologne ? the
ladies love that.
You need the right attitude. By attitude I mean your overall outlook
and the manner in which you conduct yourself. Your feelings, your
thoughts, the way you behave, your opinion of right and wrong and your
way of thinking are all part of having the right attitude.

Source - by permission: G-gasm Method: The Ultimate Guide to the G-spot Orgasm
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: gcjain-ga on 26 Aug 2006 10:16 PDT

I don't think there is one BEST way to have sex with a girl.

You can randomly choose 100 girls and ask them all to have sex with
you (preferably in a pub or girls who do not have their boy friends
near them!). Contiue this excercise till one accepts! (You may get
slapped, kicked etc., but, hey, nothing coms free!) And if one
accepts, remember, thats what makes the world go round!

Go to a place where there are many horny attractive girls, show them
that you are spending lots of money - make sure you show a wad of
dollars and maybe a few will notice - girls are attracted to money!

Alternatively, drug a girl (maybe ECSTASY etc.) and enjoy!

If you don't want to spend a dime and get laid - try option 1.

Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: aussietpp-ga on 26 Aug 2006 10:59 PDT
Please do not ever consider drugging a girl.
The side effects for some people can be fatal.

Shame on you gcjain-ga for even suggesting this.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: probonopublico-ga on 26 Aug 2006 12:02 PDT
Sheila (Aussie) is so right.

I know of a young woman (now in her mid 20's) who has a serious mental
health problem after taking just one trip on Ecstasy.

She's destined to spend the rest of her life in care.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: smit123-ga on 11 Sep 2006 02:20 PDT
You could always try finding a like minded girl who just wants a one
night stand or a sex only relationship. Women are a lot more like men
in the 21st century. There are many out there who just want sex
without all the relationship part. Some like the thought of having sex
with strangers too and with many sites like it's
quite easy to find someone looking for sex.
Subject: Re: Getting with a girl
From: ayub12-ga on 15 Nov 2006 19:07 PST
I like what Irlands said !!!! You are 1000% true !!! Thanks for your comments.

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