I would like to have my products feature in Vogue, Elle and that sort
of magazines. I've tried sending press releases and contacting the
editos myself but didn't work. A PR/publicist costs from $2-3 thousand
a month and i can't afford that much right now.

How can I find independent publicist that i can pay (reasonable $$) to
have my proudcts featured in magazines?

Kiara

Most often, actual products are mailed to the editors, and the editors
pick and choose which to include in their magazines.

Kriswrite

I agree, you can't force them to spotlight your product, what if they
don't like it, or they have their own agenda and lineup of products to
spotlight? If sending them a sample doesn't work you can fork over
some $$ and advertise in the magazines you mentioned.