Looking for an average kind of kiss a man gives a woman after a few
dates. I don't mean just the first 3 second peck, I mean the first 5
minutes of a first kiss with someone (cheack touch lips, then back
off, go in for another, whatever). Realism here, not a Tom Cruise kind
of first kiss.

Need it urgent, gotta impress right :)

The video has to be free though. If a video is really really
impossible to find, then perhaps a detail describe of how many seconds
the first peck on lips, then on check, etc... a roadmap.

PS: I'm a male, despite the nickname.

Hi lostlittlesally,

Here ya go! It was very fun for me to find these for you. I went to
Google Video & YouTube and found examples of kisses for you.

Note the length of these videos, a couple have a storyline and are
kinda long.  All are worth watching for one reason or another.

This is called Broe's Lovely Kiss - it's a compilation of kisses, a
great study for you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZZTFW1GaqkE&mode=related&search=
Same couple: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=pNAcidMPPgw

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French Kissing
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=6218641626235480755&q=kiss

An Intimate Look at the Art Of Kissing
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=9107103659638731504&q=kiss

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Speed & Jude's first kiss:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=otE2Yc9FV6I
Veronica & Logan again, in the bathroom
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=claoMzuB2Eg&mode=related&search=

There's a pretty realistic and sweet "first kiss" at the end of this 6
minute video, in some other language. Just goes to show you *sex*
really is the universal language. I had no problem following what was
going on...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lpTNSUlwmDs

CUTE, and appropriate: Love's First Kiss - Fun Story. Lovely Story.
Bad problem. Happy ending...
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HO43jwbnvfo

"Tromeo" and Juliet
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=29JsufUjDjA
This guy has his mouth open too much - take heed, you don't want to swallow her.

Kiss Compilation - one couple
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oyXK4_geAy4


And just because I found them and they are great videos:

Awww, these are really cute (kids):
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-1249328626614571556&q=%22first+kiss%22
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6QR47BFbILE

Cute well made video, kiss is too short, just a peck.
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-8548048645908681615&q=%22first+kiss%22

This is what you don't wanna do--Eeeek!
http://video.google.com/videoplay?docid=-3844891026414869723&q=%22first+kiss%22


I hope this helps! Let me know if you need any more...


~~Cynthia


Search terms:
"first kiss"
kiss compilation
kiss

you're thinking too much.  just do it.  no, really, the specifics you
seek don't matter, just follow your gut, follow her lead, you'll be
fine.

if i could go back and tell the 15 year old me this, it would have
saved many, many years of stress and worry.  unfortunately, the 15
year old me wouldn't have listened.

-cab

Who do you want to impress, and with what?  

If your question is about learning technique, just pucker up and let it happen.
If she has more experience  - or imagination -  follow her lead.  If
you do, well, don't force it.  Maybe her idea of a first kiss beyond a
peck is not yours.  Next time ...

Kissing isn't about impressing someone.  If she gets the idea that
that is what you want to do, she may think you are showing off or have
too much experience, neither of which she may find appropriate.
Kissing is about showing and receiving affection and should be very
personal and individual to the way both persons feel.

Hey lostlittlesally,

Just follow these two old chaps' advice. Good luck!

(Third old chap :)

Awww, Cynthia, you shouldn't have done that!  There some things
everyone should learn by him/herself  - well, not without willing
help.

Aw shucks, so one budding kisser won't have to fumble around as much
as his peers, I prefer to think I have helped make his first kiss
magical, because he won't be stressin' as much. Kinda like that video
above:

"Love's First Kiss" 
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HO43jwbnvfo

Kisses,
~~Cyn

When, where?  Or with music:  "Tell me quando, ..."

xxX Myo :-o

Think of kissing someone as communicating with them on a different
level. There is no formula for a succesful kiss just as there is no
formula for telling someone the right thing. In either case it is
person specific. The important thing is not to have some formula you
are following but rather that you are "speaking" to that person on a
different level. Some girls I've kissed just stick their tongues in
your mouth and rotate it, weird and unpleasant. Don't be too overeager
and don't kiss for to long, 30 seconds is fine, have  breather and if
you want to kiss again don't make a marathon of it. Also remember your
hands can take this oppertunity to caress the other person. Running
your fingers along their back up to the neck is something I enjoy
doing. Find what works for you and them.