I have my desktop networked with my laptop.  They sync with each other
but do not sync the outlook.pst folder. I would like to sync my mail
as we do with exchange servers.  Does anyone have a solution?

http://support.microsoft.com/default.aspx?scid=KB;EN-US;q164407&

SUMMARY
Outlook 97 does not provide for automatically synchronizing a Personal
Folder file (.pst) between two different computers. However, this
article suggests three workarounds ...


http://support.microsoft.com/default.aspx?scid=kb;en-us;Q205229

SUMMARY
Microsoft Outlook does not provide for automatically synchronizing a
Personal Folder file (.pst) between two different computers. This
article suggests three workarounds ...


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