Once a great composer was asked by a mother of a newborn child when
she should start musical education of here child, she was told that
she had been already nine moths late.

Question: Who was that composer (or music educator) and what is the
exact quote?

Hi alex100:

I believe the composer and music educator (he was both) you are
looking for is Zoltán Kodály. The story of this quote is told as
follows:

A journalist once asked Hungarian composer and music educator Zoltan
Kodaly when music education should begin. Kodaly replied, "Nine months
before birth." Later, he corrected himself, explaining, "It should
really begin nine months before the birth of the mother."
From: http://familyfun.go.com/raisingkids/preg/stages/feature/tole117music/tole117music.html

You can learn more about this famous Hungarian educator at: 

Zoltan Kodaly - Biography
http://www.kodaly.org.au/zoltan_kodaly.

The Kodaly Philosophyhtm
http://home.earthlink.net/~debrajet/Kodaly.html

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