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Why are Women better than Men .... ?
Category: Relationships and Society Asked by: probonopublico-ga List Price: $2.00 |
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23 Nov 2002 04:41 PST
Expires: 23 Dec 2002 04:41 PST Question ID: 113107 |
Why are Women better than Men as supermarket check-out clerks ... When, within the limits imposed by Nature (like motherhood) .... Men are better at everything else? |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
Answered By: sgtcory-ga on 23 Nov 2002 07:13 PST Rated: |
Hello probonopublico, I should definitely tread lightly, as I am sure at some point, the females that make up the other half of any of my relationships are surely going to base my worth on this answer. May all of my "t's be crossed and my i's be well dotted." Q. Why are Women better than Men as supermarket check-out clerks? Social stigma seems to be the overwhelming factor. To understand better what I am implying, we have to go back to the dictionary and see what the origin of the word stigma is in the purest sense: stigma origin "Middle English stigme, brand, from Latin stigma" http://dictionary.reference.com/search?q=stigma Much like everything else in the world, males feel the need to associate a 'brand', or a reference to identify with. Most men think women are better at this particular job because until recently, the job was thought of as, 'a woman's type of job'. We can clearly see in society today that this theory is losing steam. Shifting gears, one can contend that the argument is in the overall unexplained genetics of men and women. Here is an excerpt from the book 'Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus', Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus - by John Gray "Where men are task-oriented, we are relational-oriented." http://www.leaderu.com/orgs/probe/docs/men-mars.html To explain the above point, I can only be reminded of an example that I was once privileged to hear: In essence, the man and woman are both going out to buy jacket : - The man goes straight to the store, and gets the first jacket he finds. - The woman goes to 300 stores and finds nothing she likes. - The woman comes home with a lemonade and a cookie. - She is pleased because she didn't spend money on something she didn't want. - As a bonus she got a delicious lemonade and cookie for only a dollar. - The man is pleased because he accomplished his task of getting a jacket. How does this relate to a supermarket clerk? Here's my thoughts using the above line of thinking as a reference: A woman is bound to take more pride in just about any job. The relational thought could be the fact that Christmas is right around the corner and she needs more money for gifts. A man would consider this just another job, and work if it's the only thing available at the time. His task may have been to simply become employed, but in most cases this job is not what he really wanted. At least he completed the task at hand. Conclusion - The woman really likes her job, and her performance level will show it. Indeed her paternal instincts may play a role that helps men to feel more comfortable when going through the checkout. The man does a *sub-par* job because his next 'task' is to "Get out of this dead end job". :-) This of course are just my personal opinion, and does not reflect the thoughts of Google, or anyone else for that matter. Q. When within the limits imposed by nature, men are better at everything else? This works much on the same premise as the answer above. Women are mostly held back by the labels that men allow to continue to exist in our own minds and society. I'm not *whipped*, as most men would quip, I'm just well educated. My conscious simply couldn't allow me to give anything but a fair analysis : - Women fly fighter jets today. In combat. - Women have their own 'NBA' league. - In the Marine Corps, women have to meet the same physical standards as men. I found this article that contends women are better managers overall. Here are a few reasons this article points out: - Women encourage openness and are more accessible (relational oriented) - Women are more tolerant of differences, and handle diversity better Then the article quickly points out : Bcentral - Why women make better managers "Men tend to be more speedy decision-makers". (task oriented) http://www.bcentral.com/articles/krotz/150.asp?format=print Conclusion - I couldn't find a single instance that would prove that a man is better than a woman at everything else. Maybe my informative answer will change the way the world thinks? One can only hope for the best. (smile) To help assist with this answer I searched Google for : women are better then men at ://www.google.com/search?q=women+are+better+then+men+at Should you need further clarification or resources, please ask before rating this answer. I would love to offer more insight. Thanks for the very poignant question! SgtCory |
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Brilliant, Sarge! (As usual) Of course, you have carefully ignored the great women inventors (like Thomasina Edison), the great women composers (like Joanna Sebastian Bach) and the great women authors (like Enid Blyton) .... Understandably. In my opinion, you now deserve a step up the ladder ... so please report to the Pentagon on Monday .... Captain Cory. Kindest regards Bryan |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: banchan-ga on 23 Nov 2002 07:43 PST |
hehehe what a fun answer! |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: aceresearcher-ga on 23 Nov 2002 14:43 PST |
Yes, and probonopublico is also forgetting the great male scientists and inventors, such as Marieno Curie, Elizabethan Blackwell, Betsyan Ancker-Johnson, Adam Lovelace, and Dorothim Crowfoot Hodgkin, as well as artists Marlon Cassatt and George O'Keefe. ;) |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: tar_heel_v-ga on 23 Nov 2002 15:39 PST |
What a great answer, SgtCory! Took what could have been a very touchy subject matter and applied great logic and examples. Well done, per the norm -THV |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: probonopublico-ga on 23 Nov 2002 23:33 PST |
Hi, Aceresearcher Many thanks for the additions ... but, rather than 'forgetting' the names mentioned, I can only recall Curie and Lovelace ... I suspect that are teasing me into asking another question ... Very clever! Kindest regards Bryan |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: neilzero-ga on 24 Nov 2002 18:49 PST |
Long ago when I was in public grade school the girls clearly out performed the boys on the average. As age advanses the average equals then reverses. It is a matter of expectation I think. The men expect to compete vigorously in the working world for the next 50 years or so; while the women expect to find a husband to take care of such nonesense as providing the family income. Men typically are better at taking charge, making quick desissions, even with big stakes. There is hardly any demand for gigalos, male dancers.....Besides cashiers women are still prefered as teachers of small children, several kinds of nurses in the medical field, and secretaries, answering the telephone, telephone solisiters, insurance claims adjusters, bank tellers, baby sitters, dog groomers, bueaticians.... Neil |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: skermit-ga on 25 Nov 2002 07:44 PST |
neilzero-ga, Thanks for that chauvinistic blast back to the 1950's. Maybe we should go one further and repeal or reammend the Constitution to get rid of that nasty 19th Ammendment. But I'll give you the benefit of doubt and take your retrograde opinions as sarcasm, and have a laugh with you. Additional Links: 19th Ammendment Info: http://www.archives.gov/exhibit_hall/charters_of_freedom/constitution/19th_amendment.html skermit-ga |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: filian-ga on 30 Nov 2002 06:50 PST |
"Men typically are better at taking charge, making quick desissions, even with big stakes. There is hardly any demand for gigalos, male dancers..." Neil, Men have always been given encouragement and wide-berth to make decisions, etc. Women have been repeatedly told they can't (are incapable) and when they successfully make high stakes decisions they are often ridiculed by men (and other women) as "mannish" "maculine" or the B word I won't repeat here. Men insist that competence is a man's quality instead of seeing it as a human quality. Thus women are encouraged to use their looks as a sign of their worth, instead of their innate talents and abilities. Thus the "dancing girls" -- that job is based on appearance, and women today (unfortunately) allow themselves to be seen and used as ornaments instead of instruments (as men see themselves). It is my theory that there is a high demand for male escorts, dancers, etc. but men have suppressed this aspect of society as one that, if it should be widely known it would be also wiidely accepted and men would thus be seen as ornaments as well. This leads to men having to groom themselves much more stridently and preserve their appearances. Think of the money women spend on this aspect -- their beauty i.e. their "worth" -- men would have to spend that too, just to keep up with their buddies. Men are in my opinion also very ashamed of their bodies. I have been told repeatedly (and I am a woman) that women find male bdies to be "ugly". I've been told this for years. Despite the fact that millions of women enjoy looking at males, males continue to provide gratuitous nudity in print and on film of females and have never broken through their shame to provide nude males on screen. This is of course because men have most of the power in the media world. Thus they determine what women want to see, not women themselves. I would not say there was less want or need for male dancers etc. as much as there is suppression of those facts by males themselves. Like I said, I have been told what women like and I do not always agree with whatever preference I am "supposed" to go with. Everyone is different. Men do some things much better than women, and women do some things much better than men. the real problem is placing levels of importance on each gender's tasks and abilities. Men seem to need to insist that women's innate talents are less important then men's (i.e. a "high stakes" decision making ability is more beneficial and amazing than a women's ability to increase effective communications in an office setting). It would be better to appreciate people based on individual achievements and abilities, noting that every talent is worthwhile and needed in this world. Don't you agree? |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: mmerse-ga on 27 Feb 2004 08:02 PST |
I have the advantage that I have been a check-out clerk, and I studied brain and cognitive science at MIT! I propose a different hypothesis. The brain physiologies of men and women differ such that, generally, men have greater cognitive intensity to devote to a task, while women have greater cognitive scope. In other words, the male cashier is likely to focus on each item in a task-at-hand fashion. The female cashier will regard the entire stock, so that in her mind, she's already thinking of how she's going to ring up the scallions while her hands are scanning the tuna. This also accounts for why, generally speaking, men make fewer checkout errors than women do (this was true where I worked). Male cashiers are more precise. Meanwhile, female cashiers' minds are wandering on the customer, the floor manager, her aching feet, and whether or not she should bag the kitty litter. |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: probonopublico-ga on 27 Feb 2004 09:30 PST |
Hi, mmerse What an insightful comment! Brilliant! Many thanks PB |
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Re: Why are Women better than Men .... ?
From: axlrose-ga on 15 Mar 2004 02:00 PST |
Well, your original question still went unanswered or was misunderstood. "Why are Women better than Men as supermarket check-out clerks ..." So, why are women better as supermarket check-out clerks (according to your sources anyway) than men are? The only logical answer I can come up with is because more females happen to be employed in that position than men. This does not mean that they are better at this position than men, just more of them. Usually in grocery stores (I worked at some for a few years) men do all the stocking, receiving deliveries, loading the trucks, head the various departments (bakery, produce, etc) and do cart runs and the like. Since being a checker doesn't require the sort of physical agility as it does to...say unloading dozens of pallets filled with product from semi-trucks ...women tend to be "put" there more often than men... In no way is this meant to be sexist, but that is how the industry is... |
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