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Subject: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
Category: Relationships and Society > Law
Asked by: highvoltageblond-ga
List Price: $20.00
Posted: 11 Feb 2005 19:12 PST
Expires: 13 Mar 2005 19:12 PST
Question ID: 473202
Would you please give me a few examples of LEGAL clubs and dungeons,
located in CA and NY, who cater to S & M, whereby one must pay a fee to
enter or belong?

Please also tell me if there are any specific restrictions placed upon
the individuals who enter/partcipate (ie: what one can/cannot engage
in).

Please provide name & contact number of clubs, along with their fees
whenever possible.
Answer  
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
Answered By: cynthia-ga on 12 Feb 2005 01:46 PST
Rated:5 out of 5 stars
 
Hi highvoltageblond,

Thank You for asking.


There are _dozens_ of clubs in both cities.  I selected as examples
clubs geared towards heterosexual participation

in Bondage & Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism &
Masochism (B&D/D&S/S&M).  I avoided links to clubs

that have affiliations: race, religion, gay and lesbian, etc. Keep in
mind however, that there are probably a couple

affiliation groups you might be interested in, so look them over carefully.

In these Clubs (and at Play Parties in general), there are public
rooms and private rooms, and each Club has it's

own rules and conduct codes, please explore the links for complete
details. As far as what is NOT allowed... Not

much, if you have a CONSENTING partner.  There are literally hundreds
of possible activities, and if something is

deemed inappropriate in a public area, you would be discreetly asked
to move to a private room.

What makes the private, for profit dungeons *legal* is there is
ABSOLUTELY NO SEX.  See The Dominion, below, for an

example...

FOr certain, there are no persons under age 21, and drinking alcohol
in general is not allowed. Some clubs have a

minimum age restriction, usually age 25.  The "LIMITS" list would be
common sense, like No prostitution, No animals,

No Scat (however, watersports are allowed in the large spacious
bathrooms...). Some Edge Play would be too extreme

for a public area, except on "Edge Play Nights"...  TENS units are
common in public areas in the clubs, as are all

forms of Domination and submission, like: bondage, flagellation,
caning, whips, cages, corporal punishment,

humiliation, etc.... 

If you are new to this lifestyle, I would not recommend going to an
Event alone, I would recommend starting out with

a simple "MUNCH," nor would I spend money on any memberships till I
found my niche and made some friends.  Somehow I

don't think this is the case.  If you would like more examples, please
tell me which links you liked best and I will

provide similar links in a Clarification.  If you have specific
questions, don't hesitate to ask befpre rating my

Answer.


HERE IS THE INFORMATION:


********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

LOS ANGELES AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES

********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

EXAMPLE CLUBS IN LOS ANGELES:

********************************************************************************

THE DOMINION - Private Dungeon 
You can book an appointment by telephone at:
(310) 204-6777 or (310) 559-7111
Email:  appointments@dominionsm.com

http://www.dominionsm.com/about.html
..."The only female owned and operated BDSM club in Los Angeles.
Established in 1980 by Lady Laura, one of the

foremost Dominas of her time, The Dominion offers a safe, clean,
friendly and caring environment for you to explore

your inner desires without fear of judgment.....located in a lovely
Tudor style building in West LOS ANGELES. We are

approximately 15 minutes from LAX, downtown Los Angeles, Century City
and Santa Monica with access from both the 405

and 10 freeways..."

HOURS OF OPERATION:
Sunday: 1pm -10pm
Monday, Tuesday: 3pm - Midnight
Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday: 11am - 1am

As of December 4th, 2004:
Monday - Saturday: 11am - 1am
Sunday: 1pm -10pm

Overnight sessions now available. 

RATES:
$100 for ½ hour
$130 for ¾ hour
$160 per hour

Heavy sessions with a submissive:
$150 for ½ hour
$260 per hour
Caning fee is extra

***********************

The Chateau
7403 Fulton Avenue
North Hollywood, CA  91605

Phone:  1-818-503-3003

http://www.thechateau.com/
A REVIEW of the Club:  http://www.eros-la.com/articles/2003-09-16/chateau/
..."The only legally licensed full nudity BDSM establishment in
LA.....Appointments are not needed just come in and

join our family of friends and see why The Chateau is recognized as
the finest BDSM establishment in Los Angeles..."

SESSION HOURS
Monday through Saturday - 11AM to 1AM
Sunday - 11AM to Midnight

CALL FOR PRICES, they are not listed.


********************************************************************************

SOCAL RESOURCES

********************************************************************************

EUROS GUIDE - LOS ANGELES
http://www.eros-la.com/eros.htm

***********************

Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
This site specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages,
so... Navigate to a long list of Los Angeles

Clubs and Associations:

First page:  look for "Click HERE to Enter"
Next: MEET PEOPLE (on the left)
Next: California Event Calendar
Next: Southern & Central Coast California Calendar 

***********************

Gloria Brame's Kinky Links Catalog 
http://gloria-brame.com/kinkylinks/onlinebylocation.html

***********************

BDSM Organizations: CALIFORNIA
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=CALIFORNIA&view_records=View+Records&w

w=on


********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

NEW YORK AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES

********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

EXAMPLE CLUBS IN NEW YORK:

********************************************************************************

TES
http://www.tes.org/
The Eulenspiegal Society New York City - NYC's oldest BDSM
organization. The Eulenspiegel Society is a

not-for-profit organization which promotes sexual liberation for all
adults. Wide range of Special Interest Groups!

Especially for people who enjoy consensual SM. Also visit their D/sNET
channel on IRC: #TES_friends

***********************

Fetish Warehouse NY
117 25th Street (off 3rd Ave. At Dead End)
Brooklyn, New York 11232
(718) 369-5009

Friday & Saturday nights - 10 pm-4am

PRICES (unless otherwise indicated)

SINGLE MEN-$ 35
COUPLES-$ 30
DRESSED TVS-$ 15
WOMEN-NO CHARGE

http://www.fetishwarehouseny.com/
..."New York City's busiest SM club for pervs of every stripe..."

********************************************************************************

NY RESOURCES

********************************************************************************

EUROS GUIDE - NEW YORK
http://www.eros-ny.com/classifieds/erosbdsm.htm

***********************

Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
They specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages, so...
Navigate from the California page to New York

(link at the top of the CA page: NY)

The New York List is HUGE, there must be a LOT of kinky people there..  ;-)

On the New York page, don't miss the LINKS on the right to other
infamous NY Clubs that I didn't use as an

example...

***********************

Lolita's Incomplete & Biased NYC SM Resource List
http://members.aol.com/lolitassc/nysm.html

***********************

BDSM Organizations: NEW YORK
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=NEW+YORK&view_records=View+Records&ww=

on


********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

AND JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE COOL

********************************************************************************

Since you travel, these might interest you:

Fetish Convention - August 2005 - Tampa, Florida
http://www.fetishcon.com/

***********************

There's something about Kink and Halloween that really go together...

Halloween Ball - The Ultimate Halloween Bashes - 2005 - NEW ORLEANS
http://www.halloweenball.com/
http://www.halloweenball.com/neworleans/index.htm (page under
construction, it's early in the year)
..."Named as "ONE OF THE TOP TEN EVENTS IN THE WORLD" by the Travel Channel..." 

The Halloween Ball was in Las Vegas in 2004:
http://www.halloweenball.com/event04.htm
..."As always, there will be the unusual and wild, EROTIC STAGE
PERFORMANCES as well as fire performers, seven

incredible lasers systems, lights and sounds, world class DJ's, two
haunted houses, a delicious slide show featuring

the erotic photography of Justice Howard, vendors, a HUGE DANCE FLOOR,
a separate hip- hop dance area, stilt

walkers, freaks, monsters, SURPRISES AROUND EVERY CORNER, and you in
your naughtiest, scariest, sexiest, and most

creative costumes..."

***********************

The Red Rooster - Halloween Party 2005 - Las Vegas, Nevada
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/
Not specifically a BDSM Club, but this place is world famous and
Halloween is the kinkiest and most unusual night of

the year. Everything --and more than you can imagine, happens at this
Club. The Halloween Party is always the

closest weekend to Halloween. They may not have set the date yet, but
call if you're interested.  The Red Rooster,

technically a "swinger's Club" is a private residence, and only
accepts 'donations.' The 'recommended donation

structure' is very similiar to the Fetish Warehouse structure, above. 
Alcohol is allowed, BYOB, mixer is free. Live

music and free food on Friday and Saturday nights.  Indoor Pool and
Spa, Pool Table, ...5,000 square feet of

decadence.

Red Rooster Rules page:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/rules.html

WICKED EDEN is hosting a Fetish Party there THIS Sunday, Feb 13th:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/events.html

Difficult to find.  See directions page.

THE OFFICE IS LOCATED:

5010 Steptoe
Las Vegas, Nevada

Phone:  (702) 451-6661 
Ask for Chris or Mike.

***********************

Adult Services > BDSM Clubs
http://dir.yahoo.com/business_and_economy/shopping_and_services/sex/adult_services/bdsm/clubs/

***********************

EUROS GUIDE
http://www.eros-la.com/classifieds/eroscities.htm
Other Euro Guides

********************************************************************************

Thanks for asking this Question, it was a pleasure to serve you...  if
you need MORE information, or different

information in regards to Public and Private BDSM Clubs --Please ask
for Clarification, before rating my Answer...


~~cynthia

Clarification of Answer by cynthia-ga on 12 Feb 2005 01:50 PST
highvoltage, I messed up the formatting, sorry.  The Answer with the
correct formatting is here:

Hi highvoltageblond,

Thank You for asking.


There are _dozens_ of clubs in both cities.  I selected as examples
clubs geared towards heterosexual participation in Bondage &
Discipline, Dominance & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism
(B&D/D&S/S&M).  I avoided links to clubs that have affiliations: race,
religion, gay and lesbian, etc. Keep in mind however, that there are
probably a couple affiliation groups you might be interested in, so
look them over carefully.

In these Clubs (and at Play Parties in general), there are public
rooms and private rooms, and each Club has it's own rules and conduct
codes, please explore the links for complete details. As far as what
is NOT allowed... Not much, if you have a CONSENTING partner.  There
are literally hundreds of possible activities, and if something is
deemed inappropriate in a public area, you would be discreetly asked
to move to a private room.

What makes the private, for profit dungeons *legal* is there is
ABSOLUTELY NO SEX.  See The Dominion, below, for an example...

FOr certain, there are no persons under age 21, and drinking alcohol
in general is not allowed. Some clubs have a minimum age restriction,
usually age 25.  The "LIMITS" list would be common sense, like No
prostitution, No animals, No Scat (however, watersports are allowed in
the large spacious bathrooms...). Some Edge Play would be too extreme
for a public area, except on "Edge Play Nights"...  TENS units are
common in public areas in the clubs, as are all forms of Domination
and submission, like: bondage, flagellation, caning, whips, cages,
corporal punishment, humiliation, etc....

If you are new to this lifestyle, I would not recommend going to an
Event alone, I would recommend starting out with a simple "MUNCH," nor
would I spend money on any memberships till I found my niche and made
some friends.  Somehow I don't think this is the case.  If you would
like more examples, please tell me which links you liked best and I
will provide similar links in a Clarification.  If you have specific
questions, don't hesitate to ask befpre rating my Answer.


HERE IS THE INFORMATION:


********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

LOS ANGELES AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES

********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

EXAMPLE CLUBS IN LOS ANGELES:

********************************************************************************

THE DOMINION - Private Dungeon 
You can book an appointment by telephone at:
(310) 204-6777 or (310) 559-7111
Email:  appointments@dominionsm.com

http://www.dominionsm.com/about.html
..."The only female owned and operated BDSM club in Los Angeles.
Established in 1980 by Lady Laura, one of the foremost Dominas of her
time, The Dominion offers a safe, clean, friendly and caring
environment for you to explore your inner desires without fear of
judgment.....located in a lovely Tudor style building in West LOS
ANGELES. We are approximately 15 minutes from LAX, downtown Los
Angeles, Century City and Santa Monica with access from both the 405
and 10 freeways..."

HOURS OF OPERATION:
Sunday: 1pm -10pm
Monday, Tuesday: 3pm - Midnight
Wednesday, Thursday, Friday, Saturday: 11am - 1am

As of December 4th, 2004:
Monday - Saturday: 11am - 1am
Sunday: 1pm -10pm

Overnight sessions now available. 

RATES:
$100 for ½ hour
$130 for ¾ hour
$160 per hour

Heavy sessions with a submissive:
$150 for ½ hour
$260 per hour
Caning fee is extra

***********************

The Chateau
7403 Fulton Avenue
North Hollywood, CA  91605

Phone:  1-818-503-3003

http://www.thechateau.com/
A REVIEW of the Club:  http://www.eros-la.com/articles/2003-09-16/chateau/
..."The only legally licensed full nudity BDSM establishment in
LA.....Appointments are not needed just come in and join our family of
friends and see why The Chateau is recognized as the finest BDSM
establishment in Los Angeles..."

SESSION HOURS
Monday through Saturday - 11AM to 1AM
Sunday - 11AM to Midnight

CALL FOR PRICES, they are not listed.


********************************************************************************

SOCAL RESOURCES

********************************************************************************

EUROS GUIDE - LOS ANGELES
http://www.eros-la.com/eros.htm

***********************

Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
This site specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages,
so... Navigate to a long list of Los Angeles Clubs and Associations:

First page:  look for "Click HERE to Enter"
Next: MEET PEOPLE (on the left)
Next: California Event Calendar
Next: Southern & Central Coast California Calendar 

***********************

Gloria Brame's Kinky Links Catalog 
http://gloria-brame.com/kinkylinks/onlinebylocation.html

***********************

BDSM Organizations: CALIFORNIA
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=CALIFORNIA&view_records=View+Records&ww=on


********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

NEW YORK AREA CLUBS and RESOURCES

********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

EXAMPLE CLUBS IN NEW YORK:

********************************************************************************

TES
http://www.tes.org/
The Eulenspiegal Society New York City - NYC's oldest BDSM
organization. The Eulenspiegel Society is a not-for-profit
organization which promotes sexual liberation for all adults. Wide
range of Special Interest Groups! Especially for people who enjoy
consensual SM. Also visit their D/sNET channel on IRC: #TES_friends

***********************

Fetish Warehouse NY
117 25th Street (off 3rd Ave. At Dead End)
Brooklyn, New York 11232
(718) 369-5009

Friday & Saturday nights - 10 pm-4am

PRICES (unless otherwise indicated)

SINGLE MEN-$ 35
COUPLES-$ 30
DRESSED TVS-$ 15
WOMEN-NO CHARGE

http://www.fetishwarehouseny.com/
..."New York City's busiest SM club for pervs of every stripe..."

********************************************************************************

NY RESOURCES

********************************************************************************

EUROS GUIDE - NEW YORK
http://www.eros-ny.com/classifieds/erosbdsm.htm

***********************

Dark Desire
http://www.drkdesyre.com/
They specifically ask that people don't link to inside pages, so...
Navigate from the California page to New York (link at the top of the
CA page: NY)

The New York List is HUGE, there must be a LOT of kinky people there..  ;-)

On the New York page, don't miss the LINKS on the right to other
infamous NY Clubs that I didn't use as an example...

***********************

Lolita's Incomplete & Biased NYC SM Resource List
http://members.aol.com/lolitassc/nysm.html

***********************

BDSM Organizations: NEW YORK
http://www.domsubfriends.com/cgi-local/wwwdir/db.cgi?db=org&uid=default&state=NEW+YORK&view_records=View+Records&ww=on


********************************************************************************
********************************************************************************

AND JUST BECAUSE THEY ARE COOL

********************************************************************************

Since you travel, these might interest you:

Fetish Convention - August 2005 - Tampa, Florida
http://www.fetishcon.com/

***********************

There's something about Kink and Halloween that really go together...

Halloween Ball - The Ultimate Halloween Bashes - 2005 - NEW ORLEANS
http://www.halloweenball.com/
http://www.halloweenball.com/neworleans/index.htm (page under
construction, it's early in the year)
..."Named as "ONE OF THE TOP TEN EVENTS IN THE WORLD" by the Travel Channel..." 

The Halloween Ball was in Las Vegas in 2004:
http://www.halloweenball.com/event04.htm
..."As always, there will be the unusual and wild, EROTIC STAGE
PERFORMANCES as well as fire performers, seven incredible lasers
systems, lights and sounds, world class DJ's, two haunted houses, a
delicious slide show featuring the erotic photography of Justice
Howard, vendors, a HUGE DANCE FLOOR, a separate hip- hop dance area,
stilt walkers, freaks, monsters, SURPRISES AROUND EVERY CORNER, and
you in your naughtiest, scariest, sexiest, and most creative
costumes..."

***********************

The Red Rooster - Halloween Party 2005 - Las Vegas, Nevada
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/
Not specifically a BDSM Club, but this place is world famous and
Halloween is the kinkiest and most unusual night of the year.
Everything --and more than you can imagine, happens at this Club. The
Halloween Party is always the closest weekend to Halloween. They may
not have set the date yet, but call if you're interested.  The Red
Rooster, technically a "swinger's Club" is a private residence, and
only accepts 'donations.' The 'recommended donation structure' is very
similiar to the Fetish Warehouse structure, above.  Alcohol is
allowed, BYOB, mixer is free. Live music and free food on Friday and
Saturday nights.  Indoor Pool and Spa, Pool Table, ...5,000 square
feet of decadence.

Red Rooster Rules page:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/rules.html

WICKED EDEN is hosting a Fetish Party there THIS Sunday, Feb 13th:
http://www.vegasredrooster.com/events.html

Difficult to find.  See directions page.

THE OFFICE IS LOCATED:

5010 Steptoe
Las Vegas, Nevada

Phone:  (702) 451-6661 
Ask for Chris or Mike.

***********************

Adult Services > BDSM Clubs
http://dir.yahoo.com/business_and_economy/shopping_and_services/sex/adult_services/bdsm/clubs/

***********************

EUROS GUIDE
http://www.eros-la.com/classifieds/eroscities.htm
Other Euro Guides

********************************************************************************

Thanks for asking this Question, it was a pleasure to serve you...  if
you need MORE information, or different information in regards to
Public and Private BDSM Clubs --Please ask for Clarification, before
rating my Answer...


~~cynthia

Clarification of Answer by cynthia-ga on 12 Feb 2005 02:28 PST
hivoltageblond,

I found some more resources for you:

First, I forgot the TES Membership and Benefits info:
http://tes.org/beta/content/view/20/67/

*********************

The Den Of Iniquity
http://www.thedenofiniquity.net/dun.html
Dungeons in Los Angeles AND New York...

*********************

Lair De Sade
6628 Lankershim Blvd
North Hollywood, CA. 91606

http://www.lairdesade.com/  [Incredible Intro to the web site]
Membership information page:  http://www.lairdesade.com/memberships.htm

*********************

Threshold
The Threshold Society, Inc.
12828 Victory Blvd. #282
North Hollywood, CA  91606-3013

http://threshold.org/ [site is in frames, I can't link to anything
except the front page]
Membership information: look on the left for "Join Threshold" 

EMAIL:  outreach@threshold.org
PHONE:  Threshold Hotline (818)782-1160 

*********************

RESOURCE:

LARAWW - Los Angeles Radical and Wicked Women 
http://www.laraww.org/
..."is a women's group devoted to the educational and social
well-being of the women's BDSM, leather, and fetish
communities.....welcomes all women and transfolk, regardless of their
sexual orientation or preference.  However, only those persons 21
years of age and over may attend..."

*********************

Any of these strike your fancy?

~~cynthia

Request for Answer Clarification by highvoltageblond-ga on 16 Feb 2005 12:44 PST
Cynthia, you did such a great job answering my questions and providing
information, that in addition to the 5 Stars I gave you, I wanted to
give you a tip.  Unfortunately, I hit send too soon.

How can I go about submitting the tip?

Thank you for an EXCELLENT job!

April aka HighVoltageBlonde

Clarification of Answer by cynthia-ga on 16 Feb 2005 21:06 PST
April,

Thanks SO MUCH for the 5 stars, the kind words, and the generous tip!
(I did receive it)...

I enjoyed researching this for you.  Please let me know if you would
like additional information on this subject.  If you want more info on
NY and CA, I'd be happy to add more information here.  If it's a new
Question, you could ask for me in the subject line.

~~cynthia
highvoltageblond-ga rated this answer:5 out of 5 stars and gave an additional tip of: $5.00
Thank you Cynthia.

Comments  
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: archae0pteryx-ga on 12 Feb 2005 21:41 PST
 
There are also clubs and dungeons in San Francisco, not just Southern California.

Archae0pteryx
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: highvoltageblond-ga on 13 Feb 2005 14:28 PST
 
FYI my Google Research Friends:  I am writing a dissertation on
sexuality and human psychology and I am seeking facts, statistics and
figures -- charges, arrests, fines, sentences , etc.   Laws, or lack
of laws.

For instance, on Zooskool.com it says people can marry their pets,
which clearly gets around the "cruelty to animals" -- as the pet is
now your spouse.

Other examples of things I'd be intersted in information are:

1) Something called "Furries" people who have sex with others dressed
as stuffed animals.

2) People whio have sex with dolphins.

The bottomline is, I am interested in any information that would
further my research, specifically facts and statistics, laws (or lack
thereof), arrests, fines and sentences.
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: archae0pteryx-ga on 13 Feb 2005 15:39 PST
 
Hi, h.v.blond,

One avenue of inquiry you might want to consider is legal advocate
groups that serve the BDSM community.  I know of at least one in SF. 
I can't recall the name of it, but one of the principals goes by the
(scene) name of Dmitri.  I am sure they would be well versed in what
is and isn't legal, what kinds of cases come up, and what kinds of
defenses are made.  I also think some of the private organizations,
such as Odyssey, Fusion, and Janus, have legal arms.  I believe some
of those groups have websites.  And don't overlook the Sisters of
Perpetual Indulgence, who have ties into the leather community.  I am
a big fan of theirs--they are a serious community service
organization, giving special but not exclusive support to the gay
community, despite their wickedly irreverent disguises and spirit of
fun.  Check their website too:
http://www.thesisters.org/
They could probably steer you to legal information.

There's an above-ground club I've heard of called the Power Exchange
in SF.  And there's a well-known dominatrix (whose name I've
forgotten) who gives lessons and holds classes.

I hope these suggestions provide you with some leads.

I also think that in some cases the legalities affecting clubs and
dungeons have to do with insurance rather than with potentially
illegal practices.

(Disclaimer:  My interest is not academic like yours, but it's not
really personal either, so I have incomplete information.  I have a
friend who is really, really into kinky stuff, and I am just about the
only straight friend she talks to about it because I am not bothered
by what other consenting adults do and I don't judge her for her
private activities.)

Archae0pteryx
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: highvoltageblond-ga on 16 Feb 2005 17:51 PST
 
Thank you for your comments, Archae0pteryx.  Is there any chance your
friend would be open to an interview?  Clearly I don't need to use her
first and last name, but she would need to be verifiable.

Please let me know, and THANK YOU, again.

April HVB
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: archae0pteryx-ga on 16 Feb 2005 18:33 PST
 
Hi, April HVB,

I think it pretty likely that she would be, and of course she has lots
of contacts in the scene.  (She is a TA in a graduate-level human
sexuality class herself and lined up several of her kinky friends to
do a presentation to the class!  I sat in just to listen, and it was
fascinating--not just the presenters but the reactions of the class
members, some of whom were so vehemently negative that you have to
wonder how they are ever going to help any non-vanilla people in a
counseling role.  Others were very open-minded, even if it was all new
to them, and I hope that's the sort of person that my friend or
relative might find if they had relationship problems within an
unconventional relationship--where the unconventionality itself is
*not* the problem that needs solving.)  However, I can't post contact
information for myself or for her here, and neither can you.  It's
against the rules.  So the point is moot.

You might do best to visit a club yourself in whatever city you're in
and win the trust of participants who can introduce you to others. 
It's a rather closely protected world, and you have to find people who
can vouch for you.

Archae0pteryx
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: cynthia-ga on 16 Feb 2005 21:27 PST
 
Archae0pteryx,  --You can post contact information if it is posted for
the public and viewable somewhere else on the web.  Alternately, you
can post *how* to locate the information, post links to web sites with
contact information, or direct your friend to this question.

April,  --There are also international "secret society" clubs of this
genre.  These ultra-secret clubs cater to high society, government
officials, and celebrities.  The names are not-so-secret (they can be
discovered), however, gaining access to a member list, or an event, is
another matter, it would  take a LOT of money, a court order, or a
recognizable name or face.  These exclusive black tie and gown events
are held at exquisite exotic locations, have high-tech security, are
reported to be the ultimate D/s experience, anywhere on the planet.

I know of one Dom (in Denmark) that founded such a club, if you like I
will contact him and direct him to this question.  He may -or may not,
wish to be interviewed.

~~Cynthia
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: archae0pteryx-ga on 16 Feb 2005 22:09 PST
 
Thanks, Cynthia.  Of course you are right.  However, I can't do that
(or even direct my friend here) without compromising my own online
anonymity.  I trust my friend, but a secret is a secret only if you
don't tell anybody.

Tryx
Subject: Re: CA & NY Dominatrix clubs and Dungeons
From: cynthia-ga on 17 Feb 2005 05:55 PST
 
Tryx,  I understand completely, --Cynthia

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